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Fatbat · 07-24-2011, 06:13 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by tatrasim

How is it a FAMILY reunion without your BROTHER in the first place?

Invite your brother over, get a case of beer and go to the reunion, where you, him and your father in law can all watch the boxing match and celebrate the birthday, give the women some time to discuss all the chick matters.

Its not the same with all the people together. Men and women should separate for a bit on the reunions, otherwise it gets too boring, especially if women are trying to run the show and talk about all the subjects that make men drink the rest of the champagne as fast as possible.

You beat me to it. I was surprised no one else had said it... there's got to be a TV at the venue where this reunion is taking place and I'm sure all the men present would love to watch the boxing match too. Invite your brother there.

What do you do for 72 hours at a reunion anyway?

Icecube · 07-24-2011, 06:58 PM

please some mod alter the result of this poll and put 9 gazillion votes on "wife unreasonable"

shayne54 · 07-24-2011, 10:35 PM

Sounds like its time to grow some balls and start wearing the pants in the relationship. Thats all women want anyways. Your first mistake was "asking" to leave. Tell her your leaving to spend time with your brother. That's how it goes in my family.

RemedyGuy · 07-25-2011, 02:46 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by FatalError

See how she reacts when you tell her that you'll be spending 72 hours with your brother and will take out 3 hours for her family reunion.

You should have planned for 9 hours...and then re-negotiate down to 3 hours....now you have no wiggle room.

ricdes · 07-25-2011, 03:53 AM

the calling the grandparents plan will win any day. However, I am afraid that you might be too scared to even pull that one off.

jaranen · 07-25-2011, 04:00 AM

It is time for change your wife

MentalyDisturbd · 07-25-2011, 04:10 AM

who cares

BRB_fapping · 07-25-2011, 09:10 AM

wow, you are beta as fuck OP

casinobonus24 · 01-01-2012, 06:56 AM

1) You really need to strenghten your position, right now, she's actually pushing you around as it seems.

2) WTF we're talking about 3 hours to spend on your brothers birthday ? If your wife ain't up to accept you to spend 3 hours during your brothers birthday, think twice about her being your wife.

3) In your case, as you're pretty much the weak part in your marriage, tell her it's a business meeting and simply meet your brother... Pussy solution but hey, you're in that corner already...

hehejo · 01-01-2012, 07:04 AM

After reading this thread I am now 100% sure I will never get married.

OP is pussywhipped

bossman · 01-01-2012, 02:47 PM

So what happened?

IceToEskimos · 01-01-2012, 02:56 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by FatalError

See how she reacts when you tell her that you'll be spending 72 hours with your brother and will take out 3 hours for her family reunion.

this.

nickCR · 01-01-2012, 04:28 PM

Although I agree that 'asking' isn't the right approach, it's a little to late to play it any different now. The fact that you already asked, doing something she didn't agree to will really piss her off.

She probably has some issues with some family going and she doesn't want to be alone.

Most woman are irrational. Those on here don't really count as it's obvious you already think outside the box.

+1 on the take your brother along with you and watch it there suggestion.

I see that you already talked to your wife about it. WHY THE FUCK would you agree to her calling her Grand Parents, delivery of a message is much more important than the message itself. You should have said "I don't want to put you in a bad spot with them, i'll give them a call and ask them if it's ok with them". Especially after what was suggested here. It was a PERFECT moment to take back control of the situation.

Yes Asian chicks are crazy but they got nothing on Colombian chicks.

soulbyproxy · 01-01-2012, 04:37 PM

OP is pussy whipped. This is fuckin ridiculous.
OP: you and your brother go out to a strip club, bang some whores, sniff some coke, then both of you go back to your wife's family and watch the fight there. Tell that bitch to go make you a sandwich.

Philip P · 01-01-2012, 05:22 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mugshot

Hello friend,

you is wife she is husband

good luck bro.

Lol, perfect.

fvaldes · 01-01-2012, 07:52 PM

THIS

her labia tingle will be strong if you keep this up throughout your marriage?

ask??? lol

Quote:

Originally Posted by Andrew Scherer

You actually asked her if you could, I kinda feel sorry for you.

There is no request.

It's "I'm going to see my brother on his birthday for 3 hours on xxx but I'll be back"

There is no trickery involved, persuasion, or overanalysis necessary.

Thankfully playing from a position of strength is a simple endeavor.

GLB

KeyserSoze · 01-01-2012, 09:22 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by amateursurgeon

You're approaching this all wrong. She's not a guy. Women don't respond to rational arguments in emotional situations.

I have a wife who is possible the most rational person you could meet at work, but when shit like this crops up, she's a fucking fruitloop.

Luckily, this fact makes them remarkably easy to outmaneuvre, if you just think a few steps ahead. Here's how I'd run it:

Call up her Grandparents, tell 'em how much you are looking forward to the reunion, and then explain the brother situation. Ask if it's OK, because you didn't want to offend them, but it would mean a lot to him.

They will (ofc) say yes. You can tell your wife then that you didn't want to upset her GPs, so you called them to check, and they insisted that see your brother.

Having done that, you've now placed your wife in an impossible situation.

She can either let you go see your brother.

Or she can carry on insisting, and have to explain to GPs why she wouldn't let you see your brother, and look like a shrew at the reunion.

Now, the important thing here is how you break this to your wife.

DO NOT FRAME IT IN AS I WAS RIGHT AND YOU WERE WRONG.

The key with women is to let them feel that they're right, whilst doing whatever the fuck you want with your life.

So you say "You know, you were right honey, I was being thoughtless about this."

(pause).

"So I called up you GPs to check that it was ok, because I really wouldn't want to upset them or your family. And they insisted that I go."

Try not to smirk when you do this as it will ruin the whole effort.

+rep

Solid game advice

stickyicky · 01-01-2012, 11:37 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JMan1234

That's why I can't believe she's saying no. Because I don't go out with friends (heck I really don't even have any other than a couple neighbors!, working from home I don't meet many people). I don't go out drinking, etc... She knows that really the only entertainment/fun things I like to do involve going to see my brother and/or watching a good boxing match. And the frequency is only 3-5 times per year, that's it.

That's the problem. You've probably got her used to doing whatever she wants. She knows if she works you hard enough she can get her way.

ly2 from WF · 01-02-2012, 01:07 AM

are you fucking gay? why are you asking?

thelorax · 01-02-2012, 01:30 PM

Russ86 · 01-03-2012, 03:17 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JMan1234

My wife's family has a reunion/anniversary celebration coming up for her Grandparents.

Of all the weekends they could have selected for this, it also happens to be the weekend that I was expecting to spend with my brother for his birthday, and watching a boxing match together.

The reunion with my wife's family is, I believe Friday-Sunday, so basically 72hrs. I'm asking her for a 3hr window to drive back and watch the fight with my brother, and then drive back to her family event.

So far she is completely denying my request, and thinks I'm being unreasonable. She says there's no way I'm going to leave for 3 hours.

I say she is being unreasonable. 3 hours out of 72 to spend time with my brother on his birthday is not an unreasonable request. So what say you?

(And no, I'm not posting pics of my wife's boobies, let's get that out of the way).

You are fucking whipped man. If anything you should be allotted that whole night to go kick it with your brother.. seriously learn how to manage your woman better.

Andrew Scherer · 01-03-2012, 04:08 AM

i love these relationship advice threads lul

bossman · 01-03-2012, 03:10 PM

Whipped like a dog

Fatbat · 01-03-2012, 04:19 PM

Since this thread is from July, what happened with the OP? Did he and his brother get to watch the fight or did he cave like a little bitch?

Kerkat · 04-07-2012, 06:33 AM

OP it seems to me like you are punching seriously above your weight with your wife. Either she is gorgeous and you are ugly and you can't believe your luck at getting her or she is responsible for bringing in the cash and you are struggling.

I can't think of any other reason that you would put up with such unreasonable behaviour, you need to make a stand - it will only get worse if you let it continue.

It would also appear that you haven't been married for too long so you should nip this in the bud early on, but I don't see the marriage lasting in its present form.

pickledegg · 04-07-2012, 08:28 AM

So ironic that the OP has the word 'man' in his username.

Fastb · 04-07-2012, 09:15 AM

Give up and find a new wife, you've screwed yourself on this one beyond the point of repair. When you have so little control over your life that you seek outside assistance to get "permission" to go somewhere for three hours.... well it's time to hit the reset button.

It's guys like you that mess things up for the rest of us. She's on the phone right now telling her girlfriends how she "straitened you out" and "got you in line" over your three hour request. Her friends get the idea they can pull that crap too and WE ALL SUFFER from your mistakes. Our wives and girlfriends try the same bullshit and it's a cascading avalanche of bullshit now.

If you don't watch that boxing match with your brother you will face a lifetime of oppression and put us all at risk. If you decide to skip the boxing match please trade in your computer for a sewing kit so you can get to work mending socks with her grandmother like all the other little girls.

Zaino · 04-07-2012, 09:21 AM

I have a wife like this also. It took me a while to realize she is just insecure and pathetically needy and needs to do everything with me. I dont even bother asking for anything. If she puts up a big shit storm over 3 hours, fuck it and make it 10. She has to realize you are only giving her the courtesy of keeping her informed of your plans.

Someone post that video on how to beat your wife!

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shayne54 Senior Member Join Date: Jul 2010 Posts: 160 iTrader: 5 / 100%	Sounds like its time to grow some balls and start wearing the pants in the relationship. Thats all women want anyways. Your first mistake was "asking" to leave. Tell her your leaving to spend time with your brother. That's how it goes in my family. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter

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casinobonus24 WF Centurion Member Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: Germany Posts: 833 iTrader: 81 / 100%	1) You really need to strenghten your position, right now, she's actually pushing you around as it seems. 2) WTF we're talking about 3 hours to spend on your brothers birthday ? If your wife ain't up to accept you to spend 3 hours during your brothers birthday, think twice about her being your wife. 3) In your case, as you're pretty much the weak part in your marriage, tell her it's a business meeting and simply meet your brother... Pussy solution but hey, you're in that corner already... Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter

01-01-2012, 07:04 AM	#160 (permalink)
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01-01-2012, 04:28 PM	#163 (permalink)
nickCR Senior Member Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: CR Posts: 632 iTrader: 1 / 100%	Although I agree that 'asking' isn't the right approach, it's a little to late to play it any different now. The fact that you already asked, doing something she didn't agree to will really piss her off. She probably has some issues with some family going and she doesn't want to be alone. Most woman are irrational. Those on here don't really count as it's obvious you already think outside the box. +1 on the take your brother along with you and watch it there suggestion. I see that you already talked to your wife about it. WHY THE FUCK would you agree to her calling her Grand Parents, delivery of a message is much more important than the message itself. You should have said "I don't want to put you in a bad spot with them, i'll give them a call and ask them if it's ok with them". Especially after what was suggested here. It was a PERFECT moment to take back control of the situation. Yes Asian chicks are crazy but they got nothing on Colombian chicks. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter __________________ Good things come to those who wait!

01-01-2012, 04:37 PM	#164 (permalink)
soulbyproxy Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2011 Posts: 260 iTrader: 1 / 100%	OP is pussy whipped. This is fuckin ridiculous. OP: you and your brother go out to a strip club, bang some whores, sniff some coke, then both of you go back to your wife's family and watch the fight there. Tell that bitch to go make you a sandwich. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter

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04-07-2012, 06:33 AM	#175 (permalink)
Kerkat Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2010 Posts: 113 iTrader: 1 / 100%	OP it seems to me like you are punching seriously above your weight with your wife. Either she is gorgeous and you are ugly and you can't believe your luck at getting her or she is responsible for bringing in the cash and you are struggling. I can't think of any other reason that you would put up with such unreasonable behaviour, you need to make a stand - it will only get worse if you let it continue. It would also appear that you haven't been married for too long so you should nip this in the bud early on, but I don't see the marriage lasting in its present form. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter

04-07-2012, 08:28 AM	#176 (permalink)
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04-07-2012, 09:15 AM	#177 (permalink)
Fastb Senior Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Texas Posts: 195 iTrader: 0 / 0%	Give up and find a new wife, you've screwed yourself on this one beyond the point of repair. When you have so little control over your life that you seek outside assistance to get "permission" to go somewhere for three hours.... well it's time to hit the reset button. It's guys like you that mess things up for the rest of us. She's on the phone right now telling her girlfriends how she "straitened you out" and "got you in line" over your three hour request. Her friends get the idea they can pull that crap too and WE ALL SUFFER from your mistakes. Our wives and girlfriends try the same bullshit and it's a cascading avalanche of bullshit now. If you don't watch that boxing match with your brother you will face a lifetime of oppression and put us all at risk. If you decide to skip the boxing match please trade in your computer for a sewing kit so you can get to work mending socks with her grandmother like all the other little girls. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter __________________ I ran out of ideas for my signature, sorry

04-07-2012, 09:21 AM	#178 (permalink)
Zaino Senior Member Join Date: Aug 2011 Posts: 192 iTrader: 4 / 100%	I have a wife like this also. It took me a while to realize she is just insecure and pathetically needy and needs to do everything with me. I dont even bother asking for anything. If she puts up a big shit storm over 3 hours, fuck it and make it 10. She has to realize you are only giving her the courtesy of keeping her informed of your plans. Someone post that video on how to beat your wife! Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter

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