teguh123

Marriage: If, in a marriage, the wife cheats and has kids by another man, later they divorce and according to recent precedents, the man still has to pay child support, why can't the man sue the woman for damages due to breach of contract of marriage

So someone got beaten up, and the fact that she still choose to cohabit means the whole thing is okey dokey. Yet when that same person got PAID, then it can't be consensual.

Feminazis have very strange idea of "believable" consent. One told me that she can't believe a rich daughter would want to be a sexual play thing of the rich.

In any case, marriage law is so shitty, I can't believe anyone would consent to get married. At least not if they can write their own contract, but if you write your own contract 90% out of 100 it'll be like me pay she fuck. That kind of contract is illegal.

If your idea of healthy relationship is you pay for and only for your child, don't get married. You already have that outside marriage. So what's marriage for?

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Prenup!

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Most of the US laws are fucked up especially when it comes to husband-wife issues

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JarredLv

Not just the U.S. - Deadbeat dad flees to Philippines leaving four kids without support - thestar.com

Biased title is biased. Should be "Greedy Bitch tried to bleed a man dry."

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Fiver

"I can answer part of this question. California has had an anti-bastardy law since at least the 1960's. Husband is in Vietnam, US Army I believe. Wife has child. Unless, you can have a 2 year pregnancy he cannot be the father.

Except, under California's law any child born during the marriage is conclusively presumed to be the child of the husband. So daddy comes home; gets pissed off sues for divorce. Wins divorce on the grounds of adultery. And still pays child support."

This is so fucked up. Typical child-worship that goes on in this fucked up country. Now why the fuck would a guy have to pay for another guy's kid???

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Can't wait for the end of the world this december.

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teguh123

Check Real Horor Story to see what marriage is really all about.

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Anyone else wondering why a virgin is worried about getting married?

cheshire

Courts will always choose whats best for the kid, they don't give a fuck if its your kid or not.

Note: Can't turn a ho into a housewife.

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Fiver

It doesn't make any kind of logical sense though. Why not just go after the guy who got her pregnant?

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moratraffic

On the other side of it, I think if the wife cheats and gets pregnant by the other man, that other man has no real rights at all since the couple is still married. Not 100% sure about it, but fucked up if that is entirely true.

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cheshire

What if the wife doesn't identify the other man? What if she's such a slut that she doesn't know who the other man is? The court is always going to decide in favor of the child.

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rusvik

Letting people take children as hostages is a low, deplorable act and can be used to steal even more money from us. This is exactly how the European welfare states work, where single mothers get so many benefits that there is zero economic incentive to work or stay married. Being a single mom has become a viable career and it's going to bankrupt nations if not dealt with.

I'm also tired of seeing the same starving African children used to fund the hordes of marketing and admin people in so called 'charity' organisations. Last I checked, these orgs give a $100 commission to new signups from the affiliate networks that run them.

fvaldes

i have the winner:

Legal As She Is Spoke » Blog Archive » Man Receives Oral Sex; Must Pay Child Support?!

crackp0t

Thank god I got married to a decent woman and actually did research as to what she and her family was like before I got married. She got a little upset at first when I told her marriage is like entering into a business partnership, but if a woman can't get over being told that and have some sort of understanding then you probably shouldn't marry her.

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teguh123

That is a fine strategy. However, counting that your women is decent is like counting on your business partner is honest.

I'd count on fair contract any time.

It does greatly reduce girls' incentive to pick a man that's rich enough to afford a child. In fact, such men would run away from her due to that law. Obviously the law doesn't take into account that.

It's not even for the best interest of the child. The number of child with rich dad is less because of these laws. The real interest is genocide against the rich. Tall Poppy syndrome.

It's just one out of so many ways poor voters want to justify grabbing money from the rich to fund their own kids.

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crackp0t

If you think your business partner isn't honest then you shouldn't do business with him. It doesn't matter how many contracts you have in place, because if he's not honest it doesn't matter. I've gotten fucked about the same percentage on both a hand shake and with contracts. Shitty people are shitty people.

My wife and I started dating right after I had gone broke and was living at my mothers house. If she thought she was going to get something out of me she would have had to of been certifiably insane. Not all women are horrible and not all marriages are bad. Not all divorces are bad either. Sometimes people can still act like adults.

Most people are horrible judges of character or they're just desperate to not be alone. So they end up selecting a partner that isn't worthy of their time or money. It's a good idea to date women who's been married / in a long term relationship (living together) and had a kid. You can see exactly how she behaves towards her ex. Then you have a pretty good idea how she'd act if something happened between you two. My wife had a kid from a previous relationship that had ended about 3 months before I started dating her (I had known her for close to a decade before that though). Her ex was a complete asshole through the whole thing and I know for a fact some of the things he was saying was a lie, because like I said I had known her for a long time. She didn't want to stoop to that level, because she knew it would only hurt her daughter and there was no way he'd act rationally. That was a big factor in me marrying her. If something does happen between us I know the chances are good she won't go bat shit insane and we can work something out like adults and at least remain friends. I know it's possible for two people to remain friends after divorce, because my parents did it. My dad would still come over and hang out with us (his kids). He'd have dinner, watch tv, help with homework, etc. That stopped once my mom started seeing someone, but that's kind of expected I guess. I would tell my current girl friend / wife to deal with it, but not everyone is okay being alone like I am.

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teguh123

Look, if it works for you, fine. As you said your self, most people are not good judge of characters.

The problem is not so much about what's good. The problem is who decide what's good. Government is always an asshole. So is marriage, because government write the contract.

What can you get out of marriage that you can't get by writing your own contract, if the latter is legal?

I did adsense JV. Out of 10 or so people I did JV with, only 1 and latter 3 are honest. The rest will cheat you if it's toward their selfish interest.

I simply stop the JV, I also stop trusting people too much. I would trust people with certain amount of money, but that's it. With marriage you trust people with your life. You put your head on guillotine, knowing they have every incentive to cut your head but somehow believing it won't happen.

The only reason why people still do that is because too many alternatives are illegal.

Child support laws have nothing to do with supporting any child. If the cost of raising a child is $400 per month, for example, child support laws required by government will be constant $400 per month irrelevant of how wealthy the man is. If the girl feel that getting $400 per month from a billionaire is too small, she can always negotiate for more before shagging.

Think about it.

Why should government demand more simply because a man earn more? Do you pay more for your cars, burgers, houses, simply because you earn more?

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Hav3n

Posting in a Teguh thread... I honestly think his mother didn't love him.

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^It's things like this that make us forget about the Prenup...

The answer: Be gay, obviously.

teguh123

It's not about the child's best interest. Too many child don't have rich smart biological dad because of this laws.

It's really just to exterminate the best and brightest.

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teguh123

Prenup is just too complicated. Just avoid marriage alltogether.

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Wicked Ice

Man, why do you need to worry about this? Indonesia doesn't have such marriage laws, you can practically fuck girls and leave them with your babies. The court is not going to hold you financially responsible for that.

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