I've Never Been With A Girl, Should I Pay an Escort and Be Done With It?

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I'm in my mid-twenties, never had a girlfriend and never kissed a girl.
All my teen years I was more into PC games, never went clubbing and was awkward around girls.

At present I work from home, almost never go outside unless I have to (walk with my dog or shopping).
I'm in this comfort zone where I don't really feel I want a girlfriend right now, I have MFC and HD torrents for all my needs.

I'm getting worried that as years go by I will never get out of this comfort zone.
I found this local escorts forum where men review escorts, found this girl (with real pics) that takes $100 for 40 minutes and I'm seriously considering to visit her in hope that this experience will change my mindset, encourage me to go out and change my lifestyle.

Right now I'm considering the pros and cons of this move.
Will this experience help me get out of my comfort zone and start chasing real women?

Or will it fuck me up even more, damage my perception of women?

In before I'm neg reped for being a beta.
 
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tried online dating? or better yet sites like meetup, couchsurfing, local reddit groups... just to get your social life going, and take it from there? i'd spend a couple months going balls out through those avenues before going the escort route. after all, what do you have to lose.
 
Most likely you'll just end up feeling like if you want sex you need to go to escorts, and become dependent on seeing escorts for sex.

You need to deal with the fundamental problem that's stopping you from going outside, socialising, and meeting girls. (i.e. sort out the self confidence/social anxiety problem or whatever it is)

Doesn't need to happen all at once, but stuff like going to the gym and improving the way you look, going out and just talking to people in general (not specifically girls) etc will no doubt help.

Failing that take lots of drugs and see what happens. Online dating will probably just cripple your self confidence if you don't have any, as you'll get rejected more on a dating site than you ever would in person (simply because they're so biased against men number wise).
 
Of course you are kidding so I'll play along.

Why mess up a good thing. Women will only complicate and screw up your life. Stick with the MFC and HD torrents. You will know when they stop working for you and you need the real thing.
 
Escorts are so much easier than relationships. If you're happy with your life except you're not getting laid then go for it. If you're looking for a meaningful relationship then forget it.

Also remember once you go escort regular women are boring to fuck.

I'd start with fat chicks with low self esteem, then move up to skinny chicks that are ugly (butter face anyone?). Build your confidence slowly and bang chicks that don't care if you're a Mandingo in the sack then move on to chicks that fuck like animals and then escorts.
 
Just go for it - Bad decisions make good stories.

You live one time man, not twice. Do what the fuck you want.

I think after you have sex with this escort, because you will. Then I think it will definitely take you out of your comfort zone and essentially make you want someone to continuously have sex with (An Intimate other).

From personal experience, I've had sex with around 25-30 girls now, i'm in my early 20's, and I can honestly say even though it was fun - I wasted a lot of time. Mainly with relationships. But once you have feelings for someone else, it's beyond awesome knowing you always have someone to come home to, talk to, motivate you, etc.

I'll probably get flamed for this bitch post but I don't care - props to you OP for even talking about this.
 
You should get sucked off by a man first, you might be gay and not even realize it.

It will be easier and free to get sex from a man, so try that first.

Just because you get off to porn with women, that doesn't mean you're not super gay. Maybe that's why you have a "comfort zone" and aren't too concerned about going out and having kisses with females?
 
“There's nothing to mourn about death any more than there is to mourn about the growing of a flower. What is terrible is not death but the lives people live or don't live up until their death. They don't honor their own lives, they piss on their lives. They shit them away. Dumb fuckers. They concentrate too much on fucking, movies, money, family, fucking. Their minds are full of cotton. They swallow God without thinking, they swallow country without thinking. Soon they forget how to think, they let others think for them. Their brains are stuffed with cotton. They look ugly, they talk ugly, they walk ugly. Play them the great music of the centuries and they can't hear it. Most people's deaths are a sham. There's nothing left to die.”


Taken from the songs about death thread.
 
James_Clarke said:
Right now I'm considering the pros and cons of this move.
Will this experience help me get out of my comfort zone and start chasing real women?

Or will it fuck me up even more, damage my perception of women?
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What you know of women is based on porn, and you think fucking a hooker might damage your perception of them?
 
Getting laid is a numbers game. Considering many women are whores to begin with, you may find it easier then you think. When you walk your dog make it a point to interact with strangers you come in contact with. Start small. Maybe day 1 you just talk to the mailman about the weather. After you get to the point where you can start a superficial conversation with any random person on the street, you will be ready.

Remember this is a numbers game. You will hear no more then you hear yes. The more no's you hear, the closer to a yes you are going to be! Remember most women are whores so being forward with your intention to fuck them is going to be ok. Maybe it will take 9 women to say no before the first yes will come. Maybe it will take 99 no's. it doesn't matter what te number is. You will get better a picking your ideal target. You have to remember, people are mentally engrained into saying no. The key is to turn the no's into yes's. This takes some practice and getting your questions ( how you will converse) down to the right questions. People love to talk about themselves more than anything. Ask her questions about her and you won't have to at much. She will think you are so easy to talk to and maybe happy to help you out and fuck you. Just don't get put in a friend box

Remember the no's are not personal. Just keep after the numbers. It won't be long and you will have a close rate to go off of. In the beginning a 10% close ratio should be the goal. After you get used to doing it and get better at askin questions you can expect your close rate to go to 20 or 30%. That is out of every 10 women you ask to fuck 2 or 3 will accept. Even though you are trolling, This is sound advice and will get you laid more. Stick to the math and you can't fail.
 
how about we just quote the OP:

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JarredLv said:
“There's nothing to mourn about death any more than there is to mourn about the growing of a flower. What is terrible is not death but the lives people live or don't live up until their death. They don't honor their own lives, they piss on their lives. They shit them away. Dumb fuckers. They concentrate too much on fucking, movies, money, family, fucking. Their minds are full of cotton. They swallow God without thinking, they swallow country without thinking. Soon they forget how to think, they let others think for them. Their brains are stuffed with cotton. They look ugly, they talk ugly, they walk ugly. Play them the great music of the centuries and they can't hear it. Most people's deaths are a sham. There's nothing left to die.”


Taken for the songs about death thread.
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I posted that. He needs to read up on some bukowski, might give him some confidence knowing that it's not that big of a deal.
 
Pewep fucks chickens so maybe you could have a beer with him to get the ball rolling that way.

Failing that ...

If you're not a gay troll then respect for outing yourself b/c even on a forum where you're anonymous, you know who you are.

If you want to have sex dmnEPC's advice is right on the money. Put yourself in as many situations with females as you can. The main thing is this - absolutely have no fear of rejection. In fact, act indifferent to females once you've broken the ice - it works wonders. Try to reduce your wanking as well, so you build-up some sexual energy.

One other piece of advice - absolutely never ever act desperate in front of a woman. Ever.
 
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