How do you deal with personal life? - WickedFire - Affiliate Marketing Forum

Uzzz · 08-04-2006, 11:01 AM

Now i know this is isnt a dating forum , so please keep that in mind. I just want to know how you guys deal with working online, when your life goes to shits and the last thing you wanna do is sit in front of a screen. Take me for example - ..actually no take the movie Old School for example....yaa im Luke Wilson aka Mitch at the begining of the movie. Not that extreme but you get the point. If you haven't seen the movie....too bad, you should its funny.

Back to my question.... ah fuck i know the answer already ....but i'd like to hear if anyone else been in this kind of situation and found it too hard to work. How'd you get over it?

Peace.

Payton · 08-04-2006, 11:19 AM

Well, I guess you gotta start a fraternity

Uzzz · 08-04-2006, 12:02 PM

lol...done....please watch for the mitchapolza posters going up shortly near you!

xy7mike · 08-04-2006, 04:07 PM

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Originally Posted by Uzzz

lol...done....please watch for the mitchapolza posters going up shortly near you!

Hey Uzzz, There is nothing you can do to make your self feel better. Shitty answer but its true. It takes time to get over so you need to keep busy by doing things you really enjoy. Stay strong brotha, don't let this make you bitter. Don't sit around the house looking at old photos and watching sad movies. Go out and meet new women, a lot of new women. Your always welcome to come to vegas and party it up here.

Uzzz · 08-06-2006, 12:13 PM

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Originally Posted by xy7mike

Hey Uzzz, There is nothing you can do to make your self feel better. Shitty answer but its true. It takes time to get over so you need to keep busy by doing things you really enjoy. Stay strong brotha, don't let this make you bitter. Don't sit around the house looking at old photos and watching sad movies. Go out and meet new women, a lot of new women. Your always welcome to come to vegas and party it up here.

heh, thanks man. Starting to realize that. Ah precious internet don't you ever leave me

i'm finding small slots of time on the comp is the best way to get back into the flow of things...

Penguin · 08-06-2006, 02:59 PM

http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/038...lance&n=283155 -- Get this book, it'll do wonders, seriously.

John · 08-06-2006, 04:20 PM

Alcohol..... The cause of and solution to all of lifes problems.

Jon · 08-06-2006, 05:51 PM

There's always suicide.. but make sure you leave your sites to me.

shokthx · 08-06-2006, 06:22 PM

Movies are great but they are fiction. Don't compare or base your life on them. The people who work on them often have no idea what real life is like.
Like XY7Mike said, just try to keep busy. It'll get better, eventually.

Jan · 08-07-2006, 04:25 AM

Hey, I might not be the best person to listen to...I have no relationship at this time, I work EVERY day, I can be on the clock for 19 hour shifts, I'm up drinking a beer up alone at 1:10 am, the internet is my social life currently, and I just went to my room and our three cats have taken over my bed!! (I hope my life isn't as pathetic as that looks).

Seriously...at 46 I have had my share of heartaches and have watched a lot heartbreaks as a bartender and cocktail waitress.

Let yourself hurt, let it run its course. Jumping back in too fast, deniel, self medicating for the pain (alcohol/drugs) are all self destructive. Pain held in will eventually escape (erupt).

Make yourself the best YOU that you can be with the extra time and energy! You will probably out grow her about the time she realizes what she lost. By then you will be so thankful you didn't settle for what you had. (This stage of healing takes some time of course)

Like a physical wound, time has to pass. There is sensitive areas (the bruise) and lasting evidence (the scar) and pain. You can't "force" a wound to heal on the outside, the same as with heart.

FIND A WAY TO USE YOUR CURRENT CIRCUMSTANCES FOR THE GOOD. I have excessive energy without a partner and I am diving into learning new things and my creativity is exploding!

Perspective...there's a lot of things that can cause way deeper pain, hurt, and loss.

Sure I get lonely...but that's what the internet is for and its available 24/7....which fits in with my crazy schedule!!

Uzzz · 08-08-2006, 09:26 AM

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Originally Posted by John

Alcohol..... The cause of and solution to all of lifes problems.

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Originally Posted by Jon

There's always suicide.. but make sure you leave your sites to me.

Heh damn, didn't know wickedfire had such a sensitive side

Although i think im past the gettin assfaced staged...think ill listen to Jan's advice below...sounds very ...wise. Thx, i think the forum needs more womanly advice

pip pip cheerio...and damn shit happens for a reason...like this past weekend...all i can say is one door closes ...another opens... so don't bother lockin the f##@* doors

Jan · 08-08-2006, 11:23 AM

Glad to help!

Wise advice....don't lock the doors.
Well..maybe lock them if you are in a high crime rate area...maybe lock them and make sure you are answering every knock!

Uzzz · 08-08-2006, 01:08 PM

heh bah up here in caaaanada noone locks their doors

...but point taken

ChrisS · 08-08-2006, 01:34 PM

fastseduction.com

Go get some pussy, Uzzz.

We are here for you buddy.

08-04-2006, 11:01 AM	#1 (permalink)
Uzzz Death im yur Bitch Lover! Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Canada, T.O Posts: 1,959 iTrader: 14 / 100%	How do you deal with personal life? Now i know this is isnt a dating forum , so please keep that in mind. I just want to know how you guys deal with working online, when your life goes to shits and the last thing you wanna do is sit in front of a screen. Take me for example - ..actually no take the movie Old School for example....yaa im Luke Wilson aka Mitch at the begining of the movie. Not that extreme but you get the point. If you haven't seen the movie....too bad, you should its funny. Back to my question.... ah fuck i know the answer already ....but i'd like to hear if anyone else been in this kind of situation and found it too hard to work. How'd you get over it? Peace. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter

08-04-2006, 11:19 AM	#2 (permalink)
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08-04-2006, 12:02 PM	#3 (permalink)
Uzzz Death im yur Bitch Lover! Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Canada, T.O Posts: 1,959 iTrader: 14 / 100%	lol...done....please watch for the mitchapolza posters going up shortly near you! Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter

08-06-2006, 02:59 PM	#6 (permalink)
Penguin Suave Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Minnesota, USA Posts: 285 iTrader: 0 / 0%	http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/038...lance&n=283155 -- Get this book, it'll do wonders, seriously. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter

08-06-2006, 04:20 PM	#7 (permalink)
John Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Sewageville Posts: 4,915 iTrader: 6 / 100%	Alcohol..... The cause of and solution to all of lifes problems. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter

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shokthx Senior Member Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 182 iTrader: 0 / 0%	Movies are great but they are fiction. Don't compare or base your life on them. The people who work on them often have no idea what real life is like. Like XY7Mike said, just try to keep busy. It'll get better, eventually. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter __________________ shokthx NicheBOT Tour Page for $1 Trial Offer Web Marketing and Development TemplateADay.com Free Template a Day

08-07-2006, 04:25 AM	#10 (permalink)
Jan Resident GILF Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Arizona, USA Posts: 1,150 iTrader: 13 / 100%	Hey, I might not be the best person to listen to...I have no relationship at this time, I work EVERY day, I can be on the clock for 19 hour shifts, I'm up drinking a beer up alone at 1:10 am, the internet is my social life currently, and I just went to my room and our three cats have taken over my bed!! (I hope my life isn't as pathetic as that looks). Seriously...at 46 I have had my share of heartaches and have watched a lot heartbreaks as a bartender and cocktail waitress. Let yourself hurt, let it run its course. Jumping back in too fast, deniel, self medicating for the pain (alcohol/drugs) are all self destructive. Pain held in will eventually escape (erupt). Make yourself the best YOU that you can be with the extra time and energy! You will probably out grow her about the time she realizes what she lost. By then you will be so thankful you didn't settle for what you had. (This stage of healing takes some time of course) Like a physical wound, time has to pass. There is sensitive areas (the bruise) and lasting evidence (the scar) and pain. You can't "force" a wound to heal on the outside, the same as with heart. FIND A WAY TO USE YOUR CURRENT CIRCUMSTANCES FOR THE GOOD. I have excessive energy without a partner and I am diving into learning new things and my creativity is exploding! Perspective...there's a lot of things that can cause way deeper pain, hurt, and loss. Sure I get lonely...but that's what the internet is for and its available 24/7....which fits in with my crazy schedule!! Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter __________________ Failure is when you stop trying...DON'T STOP TRYING! 24 hour article delivery Jan's Writing Services Jan's Ideas Ways to Save Money

08-08-2006, 11:23 AM	#12 (permalink)
Jan Resident GILF Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Arizona, USA Posts: 1,150 iTrader: 13 / 100%	Glad to help! Wise advice....don't lock the doors. Well..maybe lock them if you are in a high crime rate area...maybe lock them and make sure you are answering every knock! Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter __________________ Failure is when you stop trying...DON'T STOP TRYING! 24 hour article delivery Jan's Writing Services Jan's Ideas Ways to Save Money

08-08-2006, 01:08 PM	#13 (permalink)
Uzzz Death im yur Bitch Lover! Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Canada, T.O Posts: 1,959 iTrader: 14 / 100%	heh bah up here in caaaanada noone locks their doors ...but point taken Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter

08-08-2006, 01:34 PM	#14 (permalink)
ChrisS Join Date: Jul 2006 Posts: 3,303 iTrader: 8 / 100%	fastseduction.com Go get some pussy, Uzzz. We are here for you buddy. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter __________________ “The only way to shut everybody up is to win.” – Terry Bradshaw

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