best white-label dating plaform?

No need to compare dating affiliate offers to dating white labels.
Offers are for affiliates, whitelabels are for businessmen (no offence)

Both require different approach.

Internally, I see handful of whitelabels owners taking out more than a quarter a mil a month from their whitelabels and that's about same money I pay out to some individual affiliate promoting one brand from my sig.

Everyone's happy, while I guarantee that guy selling his leads to me would not be successful running his own white label website under his own brand.
Also, brand owners they sometimes have no clue about affiliate marketing and that's good, they don't need to.

There's a lot of value in doing white labels (can't underestimate brand value at some stage) and as long as you have money to invest and time to keep doing it for months chances are you'll be better off and that's without 80%.
 


Without going into specifics I see average lifetime rev per member of over £150 (about $200) across many niches. Yes, it can take longer to see this return but I don't know of any legitimate cpa offers that would come close to this.

Whitlabeling isn't for everyone. You need to be commited, willing to fail and look at it as a long term investment rather than a quick fix.

Which ones are you using?

What is your break even period on each sign up, on an average?
And what is percentage of free to paid to make it worthwhile?

You can PM me if you don't feel like sharing in public.