What are some of the first steps I should do to start getting more traffic to my site?
You shouldn't run into many dickrolls in the newbie section...
To start, I would break what you need into two chunks:
1. usability
2. promotion
First, I can't give you all the details on what to do. Look at this as a blueprint and then search the website for the details. Also, this is a 50,000 foot view.
Usability
You're site is not easy to navigate. Granted, I'm not highly motivated for your products, but with the competition only a back click away - I suspect you're losing traffic due to the dated look and clumsy content structure.
Google tracks site stickiness or site engagement. A site that is easier to use for visitors will allow them to penetrate deeper and spend more time on the "information scent". This may help your site become more trusted by Google.
A site with good usability will usually have a better flow of page rank to your money pages. The proper flow of page rank will help Google identify important pages.
One thing I can't ignore: replace that POS video immediately. Heck, a hole may perform better than that dated thing since it wouldn't immediately turn people off. Try fiverr.com.
Promotion
Think engaging content, SEO, Links and Social Citations.
Make that home page *POP*. You have a giant red arrow on the home page that does nothing when clicked. The video does not answer why I should buy from you because I am too busy trying to turn it off. As I suspect is the case with many visitors.
If you have an arrow - make it it do something or lead to an *immediate* answer. This goes back to usability...
Engaging content will also put you in a position to build links. At the least, it will provide your website a
cover story so that when you buy links it looks like you have a reason. Google is not stupid, there is very few reasons that any sites of value would link to your home page.
Build up engaging articles and send quality links. Build social citations. Build or buy feeder sites. Add content daily. Even if it's something small - add content.
So, take some of these ideas and research this site. All the answers are here if you look.