in dire need of professional help... :'(

darkclaw3000

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Hi to everyone in the forum, I'm quite new here so I hope I won't anger anyone here. And also I hope I'm in the correct category.

I have been doing IM for more than a year now, I've tried and done many many things. I've joined programs, bought products, got a membership.
I did affiliate marketing, PPC, CPC, CPA, social marketing, etc etc. I have listened, take heed various advice, take ACTION and lots more.

Unfortunately, it all came to NOTHING. This has been very very stressful for me as I think I have spent close to $3000 total. Maybe more I'm not sure.
It may seem like nothing to most people out there but for a guy like me working my ass off everyday, trying, hoping, to be successful in the IM, and wanting to achieve freedom, $3000 is my life.

Right now, I'm willing to try one more time. Hopefully I will get it right, but as I read and researched, many successful IMers employ the help of professional one on one coaching. This will be the last thing I will spent on IM, because if even after coaching, and I don't earn AT LEAST $50 per day, IM is just a fantasy to me.

As of now, I do not have much funds to spent on another expensive product. I'm looking for good, trusty, coaches who I can go to, in an affordable price. Be it monthly recurring payment or one off.

Dear big brothers and sisters of WickedFire, please recommend me a coach, or a mentor, or a small group of good people who will ensure my success in IM. I can't afford to pay a big amount now because I'm becoming very very skeptical about this whole thing.

Thank you very much, and I apologize deeply if this post angers anyone out there. I'm just a frustrated and a failing person here.

J
 


and I just found out this post will get ridiculed and laughed at.. I do not wish to be spoon-fed or anything like that. I like and want to learn, it's only that without a someone mentoring me, I get nowhere. Just a simple help of showing me to the right person, and that's it. I'm happy.

Sigh.
 
You're a gullible idiot. Do you think you can buy success? Do you think all because you spent $3k on products you somehow deserve to be making money?

You should probably stick with a day job. You say you 'take action and lots more' - yeah I'm sure you've been real busy doing everything apart from productive work.
 
$3000 is hardly an investment. You need to buy more ebooks and courses - just think about how much a college education costs.
 
It sound like youre just throw stuff at the wall and seeing what sticks. I'd suggest studying up on what you SPECIFICALLY want to build business-wise. Research others who are successful at it. Make your plan by writing it out. Then sticking to it. Finish what you start and don't get caught up chasing every new business idea.

And $300 is not really that much to spend on your business, it takes money to make money. But have a PLAN of action before you start throwing money around. Just my 2 cents...
 
to King - you have the most constructive comment. I wasn't even wanting to 'buy' success. All I wanted was someone to guide. To show me where to go. I've learned my part. Who are you to tell me whether I been productive or not? That's not fair to me at all. You may have done it right, I envy you. But give this idiot a chance.

handrewrites - if college teaches IM I would gladly enroll myself in. But I know that for even less, one can be successful. It just a wonder to me how the hell they made it.

1yerrot - thank you VERY much for the advice. What you say may just be my biggest problem. Chasing. But thank god for my strong belief, (but seriously dwindling) in making it in IM, I will still persevere thru this.

Yet again, I thank you all for reading my rant. I won't allow myself to be seen as frustrated chump who's actually just plain lazy. But all in all, I just need someone to guide and show me the way, not hand me straight a box of success. I don't want that. I won't get fulfillment from that. I want to work hard for my own success. I just need a mentor. Like how a kid needs a teacher to pass his/her exams.

Hope everyone gets my meaning and not interpret it another way. I have a serious problem of not saying whats truly on my mind. Brain and fingers doesn't seem to work well nowadays for me..

Thank you.
J
 
Really, head on over to the newb forum and READ all the stickies.
Then READ all the stickies in the other sections.
Then READ more.

Then take action, THEN come back and ask some good questions.

Also, read the thread titled "it is your business" (too lazy to search the link for you)

What ticked me off was "I think I spent $3000, maybe more."
What do you mean, you don't know?

Treat this as a real business. Only then will you make a real business out of this.

::emp::
 
^^this.
Also, embrace the failure. Don't say, "I'm willing to try one more time." If that's truly how you feel, then go ahead and quit...seriously. You will fall flat on your face over and over until you get a winner, more than likely. The more times you fail, the closer you are to succeeding if you are willing to learn from those failures.
 
^^ Definitely this!

In my experience I have found that unless people are strongly recommended a specific course or membership either don't buy it or, if it has a money back guarantee, then at the very least try it and get your money back if you don't like it. Frankly the only way to truly learn IM is trail and error but you have to treat it like a business. So write up a business plan, get as much information about your demograph/market/competitors as possible and work it everyday.

And in all honesty, it just sounds like you got screwed with your products/courses that you paid for. Which one's did you use?
 
You're a gullible idiot. Do you think you can buy success? Do you think all because you spent $3k on products you somehow deserve to be making money?

You should probably stick with a day job. You say you 'take action and lots more' - yeah I'm sure you've been real busy doing everything apart from productive work.

This. Don't buy shit. I didn't buy anything and just downloaded courses even if they were expensive as hell. To tell you the truth, there's nothing special in those $2k courses, they are just hyping you up to believe that.

Offer your services and work your ass off, that's one of the fastest way to get money.