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i dated this girl for about a year and a half. we split up at the end of last summer... i haven't spoken to her since, in fact, she tried contacting me a few times after we broke up but i ignored her because i was so pissed

anyways i havent dated anyone since then.. but i look at her profile on facebook sometimes and see who she is dating, it really pisses me off knowing she is with another guy. i can deal with her being single but spending time with another guy still gets to me.. even though weve been broken up all this time, and i know i should not look at her profile or anythign to do with her but i cant help it

i want to send her an email or something to see if we can go for drinks, but if we do get back together, i dont want her holding it against me that i'm the one who came back to her.. and using that in arguments and shit, that would really be annoying..

i also dont want to hold her back from anything either.. she has a job offer in another city next year and i would hate it if she stayed here for me and for whatever reason things didnt work between us..

argghhh..help needed
 


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i dated this girl for about a year and a half. we split up at the end of last summer... i haven't spoken to her since, in fact, she tried contacting me a few times after we broke up but i ignored her because i was so pissed

anyways i havent dated anyone since then.. but i look at her profile on facebook sometimes and see who she is dating, it really pisses me off knowing she is with another guy. i can deal with her being single but spending time with another guy still gets to me.. even though weve been broken up all this time, and i know i should not look at her profile or anythign to do with her but i cant help it

i want to send her an email or something to see if we can go for drinks, but if we do get back together, i dont want her holding it against me that i'm the one who came back to her.. and using that in arguments and shit, that would really be annoying..

i also dont want to hold her back from anything either.. she has a job offer in another city next year and i would hate it if she stayed here for me and for whatever reason things didnt work between us..

argghhh..help needed
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Been in a similar situation, and it sucks. A lot. All I can say, is just don't look. It didn't work spectacularily for me, but it worked.
Aside from that, excel at life in general. Nothing feels better than casually dangling success in the face of an ex.
You can still talk to her though. Unless you think you'd fall for her immediately...
 
xmcp123 said:
Been in a similar situation, and it sucks. A lot. All I can say, is just don't look. It didn't work spectacularily for me, but it worked.
Aside from that, excel at life in general. Nothing feels better than casually dangling success in the face of an ex.
You can still talk to her though. Unless you think you'd fall for her immediately...
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You're getting soft.. We need to toughen you up again it seems.
 
Sounds like you need a healthy dose of internet porn to straighten your life out.
 
don't look man... I'm sure you can get way better girls anyway (you're a WF member :) ). Just try to set your mind on some other girl. Spend the time you are looking at her at trying to talk to or meet other girls. It always works for me. Regardless of if I am successful or not it at least gives me something else to do. Chances are you'll meet another girl who makes you totally forget about this one.

Later,
Nick
 
Fuck...

"I can't stand the thought of her being with someone else..."
Whimp.

"I want to get back together, but I don't want her to hold it against me that I was the ine who wanted it."
How old are you? 15?

Either you want to be with her, then go and tell her.
Or you don't, then get the fuck out of her life instead of cyberstalking her, crying over her picture on facebook with your limp dick in your hand.

But, as Jon said, suicide is always an option.

::emp::
So... does this restore my grumpy old man status?
 
Yeah hook up with other chicks man.

Also have a life of your own rather then sitting around looking at her FB profile. The key to being good with women is being genuinley happy without having a chick by your side.
 
suck it up like a man, go out and find another chick and have some fun.

moping around like a loser, feeling sorry for yourself will not help you get that chick back.
 
My advice is simple. Learn how to become more attractive and date other women. Live in abundance of women. Don't just go and concentrate on one.
 
get your balls out of your purse sally....

....lol..man i love the advice here...even though it might seem insensitive and cold, its the damnnn truth.
 
Did the same thing, except we kept hooking up late at night for a few months... you know. She says she wants me back, but she still went out and fucked another guy...

Kinda just said fuck off after that. Delete her from your phonebook, facebook, IM, emails, anything. Go out, get drunk, touch some other asses, get some friends, or go research some more niches.

Easy as dat, ho.
 
Go out and get some party sluts to clear your mind. In fact, make it a habit to mount at least one slut for every time you view her page.

Problem solved.
 
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