That's the problem, eBay don't need to look after their affiliates. Truth be told they view them quite suspiciously these days. The cookie stuffing issues have damaged the internal credibility of all affiliates except a small handful who were allowed to retain the old privileges.
Yeah, that's it exactly. They think affiliates are untrustworthy pond scum and it shows in how they treat them. But it's not 2005 anymore. There are xxxx's number of companies that always happy to see new affiliates. And except for super weird niches, there are a dozen competitors to Ebay out there that want and need your affliate expertise.
If the lady don't like out, walk out the door. How do you know if the lady don't like you? She keeps throwing the cast-iron frying pan at your head.