alright Seems lots of message here without an answer.
So since our increase in members, we had several issues with server load and the host telling us they cannot host us anymore, we then got a dedicated host for the blogs + main website.
After about 24 hours we realized that this wont work. We then got a dedicated host for the main website and 1 for the blogs.
The main website's dedicated server works perfectly fine and if you notice it works much much faster then it used to. however we still have issue with mailing server and that is why new registers like you neod007 did not get a confirmation email from the system and one of our staff member had to manually issue you an account, he did a good job however forgot to upgrade your account to a paid subscription and therefore you could not use the system, since i am a "bit" busy i did not see your complain till you filed a dispute and as you can see i issued you a refund straight a way.
we are working to solve the mailing service as well as working really hard to fix the problem on the second dedicated host where the blogs are located which seems to still work slowly and that is why the distribution of posts is so slow lately.
What i am telling you is, i am here i am not running a way, and still working really hard to get things done and working good as they suppose to.
Sorry again for the late response.
Best regards.