I also agree with this. For folks more "aware" than the average joe, idk why this gets so much flak. He's a douche but he's spot on.
Why Very Successful Guys Should Avoid An Exclusive Girlfriend At All Costs
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I also agree with this. For folks more "aware" than the average joe, idk why this gets so much flak. He's a douche but he's spot on.
This guy comes so close to making some valid points... but he completely strikes out swinging for the fence.
He's simply a shitty writer and fails to connect to the situation on a high level. He's so close to making his point, but really misses. And knowing this, he keeps writing and writing... probably 2000 words too many (which I ended up skimming through).
He strikes out most likely because he's really NOT that successful compared to his true audience, who wouldn't be reading his crappy blog in the first place anyway.
In the end, I'm not sure if he's wrong or right. I'm not at that level where I have the time to go out pressing women all the time. And I really don't think he is either.
Right now, I'm in a "monogamously uncommitted" relationship, and I gotta say, it's extremely nice. We get along awesomely, she supports my goals, and lets me run the show when I'm in the mood to. She also lets me get down to business when I need to.
She's also older, divorced from a long time ago with no kids, and has dealt with her share of idiots. I don't have to break her in to my nonsense. It's really a perfect situation, and I see no reason to not be monogamous to her now.
Why not be exclusive? The risk-reward-time of hunting for more girls just doesn't seem to be there for me, and this one's fucking awesome.
If he'd take off his chode-blinders, maybe he'd realize he's missed out on a few awesome ones himself.
He's simply a shitty writer and fails to connect to the situation on a high level. He's so close to making his point, but really misses. And knowing this, he keeps writing and writing... probably 2000 words too many (which I ended up skimming through).
He strikes out most likely because he's really NOT that successful compared to his true audience, who wouldn't be reading his crappy blog in the first place anyway.
In the end, I'm not sure if he's wrong or right. I'm not at that level where I have the time to go out pressing women all the time. And I really don't think he is either.
Right now, I'm in a "monogamously uncommitted" relationship, and I gotta say, it's extremely nice. We get along awesomely, she supports my goals, and lets me run the show when I'm in the mood to. She also lets me get down to business when I need to.
She's also older, divorced from a long time ago with no kids, and has dealt with her share of idiots. I don't have to break her in to my nonsense. It's really a perfect situation, and I see no reason to not be monogamous to her now.
Why not be exclusive? The risk-reward-time of hunting for more girls just doesn't seem to be there for me, and this one's fucking awesome.
If he'd take off his chode-blinders, maybe he'd realize he's missed out on a few awesome ones himself.
That thing reads like he typed it whilst standing naked in front of a full length mirror with his hand on his cock. Jesse Charger? Really?
Anyway, where the hell are all these needy, parasitic women? How do you guys keep meeting them?
My wife is fucking awesome. She looks after my kid, cooks dinner for us, and brings home a fucking good salary. She keeps herself in shape by cycling 30 miles a day. She never wears makeup and never has, and is still very attractive. She's far more interesting to talk to than most people I meet (because she's extremely smart and has a cool job). If I want to go out with my friends and get wasted clubbing for a weekend, it's no problem. What's not to like?
Seriously, being married means having someone to share half the load of life.
When I had business problems and no income a few years back, she paid the bills for 6 months. When she had career problems with an asshole boss who tried to get her fired, I fought her corner (the boss ended up leaving
imp: ).
Actually, having re-read it, it doesn't read like he wrote it with his hand on his cock. It reads like a sale letter meant to warm aspirational misogynists up to buying his ebook.
Anyway, where the hell are all these needy, parasitic women? How do you guys keep meeting them?
My wife is fucking awesome. She looks after my kid, cooks dinner for us, and brings home a fucking good salary. She keeps herself in shape by cycling 30 miles a day. She never wears makeup and never has, and is still very attractive. She's far more interesting to talk to than most people I meet (because she's extremely smart and has a cool job). If I want to go out with my friends and get wasted clubbing for a weekend, it's no problem. What's not to like?
Seriously, being married means having someone to share half the load of life.
When I had business problems and no income a few years back, she paid the bills for 6 months. When she had career problems with an asshole boss who tried to get her fired, I fought her corner (the boss ended up leaving
imp: ). Actually, having re-read it, it doesn't read like he wrote it with his hand on his cock. It reads like a sale letter meant to warm aspirational misogynists up to buying his ebook.
Great point. The perfect woman should also be one of your best friends.
This is what the author is missing.
Everything you share with a best friend you can generally share with your woman, the difference is when you're feeling down your best friend gets you a beer and pats your back, your woman on the other hand gets you a beer and then rides or sucks your cock.
i used to make a lot of money online. then i got a girlfriend, and half my week is spent with her. i'm going to go broke soon...
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a lot of these guys here arent young anymore. everyone grows up, settles down, and has kids eventually.
if you're young live it up while you're single, more power to you. but dont preach pua material to married dudes and get testy when they laugh at you, thats just silly.
poisonsembrace makes a good point. chasing pussy is a full time job and comes with a big energy sink.
this is an internet marketing forum. disregard women, acquire currency.
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(this next part isn't directed at you, amateursurgeon but the rant fits well with what you were saying)
Anyone that takes that trash seriously is either
1) gonna git mad
2) buy his book(s)
Guess which one his target audience is and which one has an opinion he couldn't give a fuck less about.
His polarizing viewpoints will create a stir (and probably some links too)
The site looks nice, he's got it optimized for opt-ins, and it looks like he's slinging quite a few .pdfs.
Looks to me like instead of arguing about what he's saying, a lot of people here should be watching what he's doing.
Amateurs.
^ i read vin dicarlos pandoras box grosses 6 figures per month
its grown into an enormous industry
its grown into an enormous industry
Seriously, I've used this term to girls (both the ones I'm dating/trying to date and to just friends) and they absolutely love it. Or at least appreciate it. In fact, I told this current one that this is how I was with my last one before she went crazy.
Perhaps it's the fact that I'm always with slightly more mature women, but by the time I date them, they seem to be "beaten down" enough to the point where they'll accept uncommitted monogamy. Hahaha
I'd probably advice against saying this to a 21 year old girl though, as you'd somehow come off sounding needy/choady. But I wouldn't know; I can't communicate with girls that young and actually never could.
I agree with his critique of monogamy but think the article is primarily designed to stroke egos.
His readers already assume they are outlier males or are transitioning into being one so this is an easy sale. Generally, these dudes rate a whole lot lower in the dating marketplace than they think. Everyone wants to believe they are that special person or have unlimited potential.
The five main points he made about women are largely true. You don’t have to be anyone exceptional to want to rise above the limitations associated with having one partner.
Some buy a nice shiny bicycle. I prefer picking one up off the street, riding it for a few blocks then tossing it once I reach the destination. It’s too bad this alternative is constantly demonized as it can be better for both parties. Share some time together then move on before the deal gets played out. Once you get past social conditioning this is the natural inclination of all men.
The volume of single people is higher today than it has even been for the last 100 years. It’s not just ballers that are opting out of marriage. It’s people at all levels.
His readers already assume they are outlier males or are transitioning into being one so this is an easy sale. Generally, these dudes rate a whole lot lower in the dating marketplace than they think. Everyone wants to believe they are that special person or have unlimited potential.
The five main points he made about women are largely true. You don’t have to be anyone exceptional to want to rise above the limitations associated with having one partner.
Some buy a nice shiny bicycle. I prefer picking one up off the street, riding it for a few blocks then tossing it once I reach the destination. It’s too bad this alternative is constantly demonized as it can be better for both parties. Share some time together then move on before the deal gets played out. Once you get past social conditioning this is the natural inclination of all men.
The volume of single people is higher today than it has even been for the last 100 years. It’s not just ballers that are opting out of marriage. It’s people at all levels.
This is a well written article and very true. I will probably be single until my 60's. I'm on my Gene Simmons $hit.
Lol, you posted a link to one of the shittiest articles I've read in a while and now you're getting all sensitive because people are laughing at it, and by association, at you too.