I'm actually a generally nice, social guy with a lot of positives but I can't seem to get a date to save my life lol. I won't even post how long it's been since I got laid because I really don't want to make this an awkward thread (yeah, it's that bad lmao). Fine, it's been 4 years since I can genuinely say I had a real girlfriend. You should probably stop reading at this point.
I haven't gotten laid or had a gf in a WHILE. And to make it worse, the only gf I've ever had was when I was in a foreign country and we just hit it off really fast and hard. It was the best month of my life hahah. Anyway, it ended badly, as such things normally do.
I've seen uglier, stupider, broker bastards than me go through girl after girl while I sit at home talking to you lot. It's not like I've got nothing going for me either:
1. I work out and have a decent body.
2. I make a decent amount of money and hope to grow it out more.
3. I'm not hideous. Actually I've been called attractive on many occasions.
4. I'm nice.
5. I'm outgoing. I don't sit around on my computer all day. I forced myself to break out of my shell and meet new people and *talk* to them (girls especially and I can hold a conversation quite well).
6. I'm smart - 3.9 in computer science (not that it means shit, if you pay attention and do your work it's easy to get all As)but I don't bring out the nerd in me unless I'm interested in a certain topic.
But I got nothing so far. Nada, zip, zilch, zero. Mostly I'm stuck with a load of gold diggers looking for a free drink from me (I usually stop hanging out with these faggot girls and guys after a month of repeated behavior).
I feel like there's something secretly wrong with me that everyone knows except for me. And no it's not that I'm black because I'm also thinking about one idiot nignog that gets *way* more white/black/whatever strange than I ever have and he's 3 years younger.
I'm not really looking to get constantly laid. I simply want a nice girl that isn't a disgusting whore or stupid. I'd even settle for a chubster if she had a good personality. Maybe what I can do is take a fat, slightly dumb and broke girl and turn her into a hot chick that works out, knows her shit and slangs berries online lol. But that'd mean I'd have to be controlling and I hate that shit.
I just don't really know what to do to be honest.
I haven't gotten laid or had a gf in a WHILE. And to make it worse, the only gf I've ever had was when I was in a foreign country and we just hit it off really fast and hard. It was the best month of my life hahah. Anyway, it ended badly, as such things normally do.
I've seen uglier, stupider, broker bastards than me go through girl after girl while I sit at home talking to you lot. It's not like I've got nothing going for me either:
1. I work out and have a decent body.
2. I make a decent amount of money and hope to grow it out more.
3. I'm not hideous. Actually I've been called attractive on many occasions.
4. I'm nice.
5. I'm outgoing. I don't sit around on my computer all day. I forced myself to break out of my shell and meet new people and *talk* to them (girls especially and I can hold a conversation quite well).
6. I'm smart - 3.9 in computer science (not that it means shit, if you pay attention and do your work it's easy to get all As)but I don't bring out the nerd in me unless I'm interested in a certain topic.
But I got nothing so far. Nada, zip, zilch, zero. Mostly I'm stuck with a load of gold diggers looking for a free drink from me (I usually stop hanging out with these faggot girls and guys after a month of repeated behavior).
I feel like there's something secretly wrong with me that everyone knows except for me. And no it's not that I'm black because I'm also thinking about one idiot nignog that gets *way* more white/black/whatever strange than I ever have and he's 3 years younger.
I'm not really looking to get constantly laid. I simply want a nice girl that isn't a disgusting whore or stupid. I'd even settle for a chubster if she had a good personality. Maybe what I can do is take a fat, slightly dumb and broke girl and turn her into a hot chick that works out, knows her shit and slangs berries online lol. But that'd mean I'd have to be controlling and I hate that shit.
I just don't really know what to do to be honest.
