Serious warning for all you poor fools thinking of getting married, read this shit
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I'm married. I doubt my marriage will last. I will never get married again. There's just no point. It's a lot harder for a woman to screw you over if you aren't married, definitely.
hey what's up chickedfucker
obviously this won't happen to the majority of us... I got married and introduced my wife to Internet Marketing 2 years ago. Now we work together at home. I work separately ofcourse, I work in the living room while she stays in her own work room from 7am to 7pm. So most Internet Marketers are working home and have their wife in the same house every fucking day... chances are very slim..
This wouldn't happen if the guy picked up a good and serious woman, which is hard to find of course, but are well worth the wait.
This set up sounds terrible, unless your wife is VERY unusual. I can't imagine any woman who would be "haaaaaaaaaaappy" sitting in a work rook for 12 hours a day in the same house as you. Having your wife with you all the time isn't the solution, especially if you are working. She's going to want to "get out of the house" and get away from you sometimes. Plus it sounds like you don't have much time for "quality/family" time with her. She's going to associate her time with you with work. I'm assuming you don't have kids- because it would be impossible in the scenario you describe. I'm also assume you plan to- otherwise why get married? Little reason for marriage and absolutely no reason for a childless marriage. If/when you do have kids your situation will change drastically. Also, there's no way your wife is sitting in a room working 12 hours a day. She probably has facebook boyfriends or something. Eventually she's going to become bored and/or resent you and need to get out and do things and fuck dudes.
There are great benefits to being married, if you play it right, certainly in the UK... like tax-free asset transfers between spouses. Also lack of inheritance tax between spouses if one of you dies.
Whether it's worthwhile depends on your gains. Marrying just for sex, or just because you 'love' someone is a bad reason imo. You need to carefully assess whether this person will be a reliable partner for you, and whether being with them will enable you to achieve things you couldn't on your own.
Whether it's worthwhile depends on your gains. Marrying just for sex, or just because you 'love' someone is a bad reason imo. You need to carefully assess whether this person will be a reliable partner for you, and whether being with them will enable you to achieve things you couldn't on your own.
Noone saw that shit coming, even him, My recommendation is, never give all the information to your spouse when it comes to work, money, other deals etc, tell her enough to shut her up, because even tho shes your wife, she will flip you in a heart beat,
If a guy hands any of your wives here 1 million dollar check to sleep for one night, how many would say yes?
If a guy hands any of your wives here 1 million dollar check to sleep for one night, how many would say yes?
I'm not married, I'm only 27, and somewhat naive
But am I wrong to think that setting up your business properly offshore to begin with (as we all should) would help solve most of these financial issues. It seems to me that if most of your assets technically belong to an offshore corp then you wouldn't technically have anything to give. Also If I'm not mistaken isn't a lot of alimony based upon how much money the couple actually has.
No?
If not then please edumacate me.
But am I wrong to think that setting up your business properly offshore to begin with (as we all should) would help solve most of these financial issues. It seems to me that if most of your assets technically belong to an offshore corp then you wouldn't technically have anything to give. Also If I'm not mistaken isn't a lot of alimony based upon how much money the couple actually has.
No?
If not then please edumacate me.
He needs to fight for full-custody and forget about her completely.
Everything he does from here on out has to be focused on the well-being of his child. He probably will not get full, but joint.
None the less, he needs to present himself to the courts as the only fully capable primary caretaker. But it would have to be done delicately, and with a good "bullish" lawyer, who will not take anything less than joint.
I was able to pull this off, but I was very blessed, as I didn't have a lot going on for me , since my ex and I were transitioning to a new city because of a career change for her - hence I started really diving into IM, while she settled into this job position.
I would assume, by your friend's description, that he probably is a better parent than she is. Her track record, compared to his, speaks for itself. Now is the time to be civil, showing the court that his child is better off with him, and why she doesn't deserve a penny outside of the normal split of assets.
Everything he does from here on out has to be focused on the well-being of his child. He probably will not get full, but joint.
None the less, he needs to present himself to the courts as the only fully capable primary caretaker. But it would have to be done delicately, and with a good "bullish" lawyer, who will not take anything less than joint.
I was able to pull this off, but I was very blessed, as I didn't have a lot going on for me , since my ex and I were transitioning to a new city because of a career change for her - hence I started really diving into IM, while she settled into this job position.
I would assume, by your friend's description, that he probably is a better parent than she is. Her track record, compared to his, speaks for itself. Now is the time to be civil, showing the court that his child is better off with him, and why she doesn't deserve a penny outside of the normal split of assets.
It's not as if he purposefully went out of his way to find a fucking whore from hell, or that the warning signs were even there. Yes he was at work constantly bettering their lives and to be honest, he was kind of blinded by love. Totally did not see that coming, I was at their wedding he was so happy. I'm SHOCKED at the level of depravity that this woman has exhibited.
Fucking digusting harlot and a god damn gold digger. She wants to support her fucking worthless boyfriend and herself on his dime. I'd even go so far as to tell him to get a paternity test for his kid.
EDIT: Faceb, where do you live?
Fucking digusting harlot and a god damn gold digger. She wants to support her fucking worthless boyfriend and herself on his dime. I'd even go so far as to tell him to get a paternity test for his kid.
EDIT: Faceb, where do you live?
You don't have to get reactive here. I don't believe "women suck".
I know there is a conflict between the notion of "women having it all" and "women being in satisfied and satisfying relationships".
And in that sense, what it means to be a woman, according to our culture and society might not overlap with what it means to be a good wife.
This is, by the way, a problem that men face too.
But I don't think this belief can be summarized as "women suck".
I think it's more like: Can the average woman be happy with the idea of being a good wife?
I don't think so. It takes a special kind of woman.
I think you'll find that so called 'liberated' women are far more unhappy than stay at home moms. It's a myth that the current lifestyle makes women happy. Look up the stats on how many American women suffer from mental illness. It's off the charts. A womans role is to be the caretaker of the family and a mans role is to be the breadwinner. This is what we're programmed to do.
1) Prenup
2) Why bother getting married anyway? Just be polyamorous and have open relationships and bribe a doctor to get you a vasectomy.
2) Why bother getting married anyway? Just be polyamorous and have open relationships and bribe a doctor to get you a vasectomy.
All of these anti-marriage threads usually fail to mention that lots of pusillanimous dudes marry women out of fear of losing them. A man who sacrifices liberty for a faithful woman deserves neither.
As a born again Christian, I will say without any hesitation whatsoever that there is no worthwhile logical reason for a man to get legally married in any country in the West.
Here are my thoughts on the matter:
-If you are not a religious person, why would you want to get married?
-Marriage as in a legal contract between two private citizens, has nothing to do with romance or love. You can have a long-term monogamous relationship without a contract between two adults.
-Speaking of contracts... I find it is hilarious that women will bitch and moan that prenuptial agreements are not romantic, and they are just preparing for divorce... When a marriage certificate is nothing more than a contract that benefits the woman and not the man.
-I hear that some guys mentioned that they would only get married, if they wanted to have children. I believe this really is not logical, since children are the property of the mother and the state, and most aptly not the father.
-Now, we all have to make compromises, so I do understand that in certain circles (rich or uber religious families), marriage is a dealbreaker if you want a long-term relationship. But I firmly believe that most women will stay with you, in a monogamous relationship without a marriage certificate, if they are really in love with you.
-Think about some of the differences between the first few months of dating and 2 to 3 years into the relationship, probably after the wedding.
When you first meet a girl, if you are not a total chump, you most likely have your life together, have other girls that are interested in you.
There is nothing tying you down to this girl if things don't go well. When you get married, she knows she has you by the throat, if you leave her, you will be ruined financially, if you have kids, not only will you be destitute, but she could have you thrown in jail, for not making the alimony and child support payments.
I could go on and on and on and on......
Here are my thoughts on the matter:
-If you are not a religious person, why would you want to get married?
-Marriage as in a legal contract between two private citizens, has nothing to do with romance or love. You can have a long-term monogamous relationship without a contract between two adults.
-Speaking of contracts... I find it is hilarious that women will bitch and moan that prenuptial agreements are not romantic, and they are just preparing for divorce... When a marriage certificate is nothing more than a contract that benefits the woman and not the man.
-I hear that some guys mentioned that they would only get married, if they wanted to have children. I believe this really is not logical, since children are the property of the mother and the state, and most aptly not the father.
-Now, we all have to make compromises, so I do understand that in certain circles (rich or uber religious families), marriage is a dealbreaker if you want a long-term relationship. But I firmly believe that most women will stay with you, in a monogamous relationship without a marriage certificate, if they are really in love with you.
-Think about some of the differences between the first few months of dating and 2 to 3 years into the relationship, probably after the wedding.
When you first meet a girl, if you are not a total chump, you most likely have your life together, have other girls that are interested in you.
There is nothing tying you down to this girl if things don't go well. When you get married, she knows she has you by the throat, if you leave her, you will be ruined financially, if you have kids, not only will you be destitute, but she could have you thrown in jail, for not making the alimony and child support payments.
I could go on and on and on and on......
Split testing is the way you choose if you really wanna get married,show her money and make her believe you have lost it all,live on the edge and for some time,most bitches wont survive more then 3 months,others will leave you after 2 weeks. And dont always blame the wife,if he's just working and not screwing her enough or not spending time with family,they why the fuck are you together? To sleep next to each other?