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Thats why I see women dating the douchyest of douchebags allll that time.
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Thats why I see women dating the douchyest of douchebags allll that time.
I think the important thing is to let it grow naturally (with a few sly moves thrown in, once in a while)
You've been friends forever and hang out and enjoy each others company and all. Don't change any of that. Sometimes, dropping the "L" bomb out of the blue screws it up.
Keep doing what you're doing but start doing special little things for her, like a guy would do for his G/F. Send her a cutesie card for no reason and send her some flowers for her birfday. Buy her a funny little gift once in a while.
Occasionally, and I DO mean occasionally, introduce her to someone as your girlfirend. Just let it slip but don't correct it. Just say it and continue talking.
If she says anything, just say "oh, I didn't realize I said that. It just feels like you're my g/f and I really like that feeling."
If you don't already, hold her hand. When you're walking or watching tv or driving, just reach over and hold her hand. No palm tickling or anything weird, just hold hands.
Pretty soon, I think, you'll know where things are going.
I can't predict what'll happen after you did what you did but I really wish for the best outcome for you.
You've been friends forever and hang out and enjoy each others company and all. Don't change any of that. Sometimes, dropping the "L" bomb out of the blue screws it up.
Keep doing what you're doing but start doing special little things for her, like a guy would do for his G/F. Send her a cutesie card for no reason and send her some flowers for her birfday. Buy her a funny little gift once in a while.
Occasionally, and I DO mean occasionally, introduce her to someone as your girlfirend. Just let it slip but don't correct it. Just say it and continue talking.
If she says anything, just say "oh, I didn't realize I said that. It just feels like you're my g/f and I really like that feeling."
If you don't already, hold her hand. When you're walking or watching tv or driving, just reach over and hold her hand. No palm tickling or anything weird, just hold hands.
Pretty soon, I think, you'll know where things are going.
I can't predict what'll happen after you did what you did but I really wish for the best outcome for you.
I'M IN LIKE FLINT BITCHES!
HAHAHA yeah we just had the best fuckin conversation. She is way into me apparently and just didn't want to say anything in fear of fuckin' shit up, but she's also been into me for way longer than i've been into her, so sounds shitty for her. Sometimes its good to be the guy and just do what needs to get done.
So the wieners are: myowndemon, morphy and firewire. and since firewire was kind of sketch about the answer i'll also throw in illkitty to be fair.
HAHAHA yeah we just had the best fuckin conversation. She is way into me apparently and just didn't want to say anything in fear of fuckin' shit up, but she's also been into me for way longer than i've been into her, so sounds shitty for her. Sometimes its good to be the guy and just do what needs to get done.
So the wieners are: myowndemon, morphy and firewire. and since firewire was kind of sketch about the answer i'll also throw in illkitty to be fair.
Does this mean less time for SQUIRT? I mean, you know after you two start going more she'll eventually find this thread ... so ... HELLO GIRLFRIEND OF ELI!
Brilliant!
Seriously, congrats Eli! Sounds like she could be one for the long haul. If you both were willing to wait this long to take it to the Bf / Gf stage, then it sounds like this could be a great relationship.
Good luck! And enjoy the ride!
Laura, I'm 26. Don't take the brunette thing personally especially if you are a blonde (i don't ever think i've seen an actual pic of you so i don't know). It's just a personal preference. Like you may not be attracted to bald guys, guys with afros, guys shorter than you, tall guys, fat, skinny, of a certain race etc. etc. Blonde hair just doesn't flip the switch for me.
As far as the not dating girls who are both hot and cool i'll explain because your a girl and have your own guy problems to deal with which are nothing like our girl probs and are probably much worse. Think of it like a scale. On one side you have girls who are ugly, on the other end you have girls who are perfect 10's. Ugly girls tend to be really good in bed (some would say because they have to be) the super hot girls tend to be incredibly bad in bed. So perfect 10 girls are great armpieces if your a shovanistic guy. But just natural attraction the guys actually willing to go into a relationship tend to go for the girls who are a little above average in looks, so they kind of get the best of both worlds. Plus much like dogs girls can be trained.
The same thing goes for cool chicks vs those retarded ditzes. From my experience at least, girls tend to flip personalities when they're in bed. Shy girls suddenly go all wild (oooh yeah thats true) and wild girls get all karate kid on your ass (think the montage where he learns to block). Thats why you see guys with those crazy mean bitches. Its cus when they're alone she becomes the biggest sweatheart buttercup on the planet. So after you get burned enough times you learn to play imbetween. So unless your a guy and feeling like engaging in a fun challenge its usually best to avoid the girls who are both super hot and cool at the same time. Sad but true in many cases.
once again, just my experience.
As far as the not dating girls who are both hot and cool i'll explain because your a girl and have your own guy problems to deal with which are nothing like our girl probs and are probably much worse. Think of it like a scale. On one side you have girls who are ugly, on the other end you have girls who are perfect 10's. Ugly girls tend to be really good in bed (some would say because they have to be) the super hot girls tend to be incredibly bad in bed. So perfect 10 girls are great armpieces if your a shovanistic guy. But just natural attraction the guys actually willing to go into a relationship tend to go for the girls who are a little above average in looks, so they kind of get the best of both worlds. Plus much like dogs girls can be trained.
The same thing goes for cool chicks vs those retarded ditzes. From my experience at least, girls tend to flip personalities when they're in bed. Shy girls suddenly go all wild (oooh yeah thats true) and wild girls get all karate kid on your ass (think the montage where he learns to block). Thats why you see guys with those crazy mean bitches. Its cus when they're alone she becomes the biggest sweatheart buttercup on the planet. So after you get burned enough times you learn to play imbetween. So unless your a guy and feeling like engaging in a fun challenge its usually best to avoid the girls who are both super hot and cool at the same time. Sad but true in many cases.
once again, just my experience.
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