I don't have a problem with hand outs... but I'm pretty sure if you have a chipin page set up, you're looking for a hand out in one form or another.
+ I don't get why her brother doesn't pay for her to go either, but there must good be a reason since it's been asked a few times here and has been completely ignored.
Ok, let's get this straight. I'm trying to understand you moochy types.
If you make a ton of money at your job, and a relative of yours decides they want an unnecessary thing (because ASW is unnecessary thing, not required to sustain life)...do you pay for it? Do you pay for endless amounts of those things? Or do you become like some kind of don that they come to for money and blessings on the purpose of the money?
It sounds like it could go bad for a couple reasons. One, it sets someone else up to be dependent on you, two it sets you up to be controlling, and three it lets a moocher continue to do nothing for themselves and live off the backs of other people. It's creepy, it's wrong, it's moochy. I never will get it. Never.
Shoemoney is shoemoney. Andrea is Andrea. They are brother and sister. He isn't obligated to support her wants and she isn't obligated to support his. Friends and relatives that require that in relationships are manipulative in my opinion. I don't do well with manipulative people so that could be why I don't understand this mantra of "shoe has money take it from him". My philosophy in 2008 is "scrape them off" and I have already started. It's refreshing.
Andrea isn't getting a handout. She is giving value. Go get a link from a decent PR site. They aren't free unless you're BHing, and even then they aren't guaranteed to stay there. Her link was worth my donation. Not to mention I can't go for reasons other than money, so I'd love for some woman in marketing to go that would love to go but can't because of the money.
She didn't twist my arm, she didn't take without giving something in return.
Oh wait....that's called an entrepreneur. THAT is why people don't understand why she doesn't just go "get the money" from her brother. Those people are not and never will be entrepreneurs. Entrepreneurs don't do handouts.
And screw all of you that think she should answer your stupid ass requests that she go mooch.
Go live with your mommas in their basement. Seriously. Mooch mooch mooch mooch. Sickening.