Some people are pains in the ass. It was like my raging alcoholic aunt who couldn't keep herself out of re-hab. Did anyone care when she was finally not a thorn in their ass? Fuck no, it was almost a celebration.
No one has a right to a funeral filled with crying people. That's a privilege easily given up. In fact, in my book, the dead are given too much leniency. People feel obligated to miss someone even if the person was a real son of a bitch. If you go your entire life without positively affecting a single person the last thing you deserve when you die is a tear.
Doesn't mean i'm going to start going to funerals to tell the dead exactly what I think of them, but still
^^^^^ very much agree...it is looked down upon if we aren't torn apart by a death in the family. when nobody but you and them really knows what was going on