Actually popeye, if you bother to read all of my post, you'll see I'm not sticking up for Saddam in any way, shape or form.
I was saying that most Iraqis had a certain sense of security, and they did have a country that was as functional as one can get under despotic tyranny, which is better than the current state of complete anarchy. Fear of government doesn't come into it. They are just as afraid now as they were then. Before at least, the fear could be put into the back of their minds because so long as people kept their noses down, they were unlikely to calm to any harm. Nowadays it's simply a matter of being in the wrong place at the wrong time. I'd say that fear is a lot worse.
Also, your numbers are out. Amnesty figures would have put the numbered of officially disappeared people and the raped in the order of several hundred thousand (still a horrifically large number). However, considering that the numbers of innocent civilians dead, the numbers equally likely raped, and the millions that have had to flee (which is a new development), the US invasion has to be put on a morally equivalent as the Baath regime level if all that matters is people killed or lives ruined.
Potentially worse as it has happened in less than 1/6th of the time scale.
You can go on about how terrible the Baath regime was... But nothing you say makes it any worse than what's happened and is currently happening. They're BOTH situations that are terrible, and as despicable as it is to say it, the previous one was probably a least worst scenario.
Either way, it's entirely hypothetical because neither you nor or I can test it, but I think most people would prefer to live under a dictatorship that provided basic services and play the low odds that something terrible doesn't happen to them, than live in a place with those odds being several orders of magnitude greater for no net gain other than some nebulous "freedom".
Sure, people would prefer to have both. Freedom AND a functioning country where things are ok, except for a minority.
But history has shown that if a choice has to be made, most people take the lowered odds and mutter about despots and their moustaches.