worth trying to get back with an ex?

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wickedDUDE

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i notice an ex of mine recently on a dating site.. we had a 2 yr. relationship that ended badly.. i broke up with her. was about 3 years ago. nobody cheated but she did some crazy jealous shit.

anyway i'm tempted to try and contact/meet up with her. half of me wants to do it, but the other half says its a bad idea and i get a heavy feeling in my stomach.

in some ways i think that we broke up at the wrong time, i decided to break up with her b/c i was really pissed at her at the time. i've also read that breaking up with somebody when you are emotionally charged is not the time to do it, it creates unresolved feelings which is what i have with her.

just looking to see what your thoughts are. i actually did just contact her.. i told her what was new with me and i asked her the same.. she didnt put much effort into her answer, and didnt ask another question to me.

anyway what are your thoughts? its sucks because she is really hot and i miss the old days if you know what i mean. we had some of the best and worst times together.
 


wickedDUDE said:
just looking to see what your thoughts are. i actually did just contact her.. i told her what was new with me and i asked her the same.. she didnt put much effort into her answer, and didnt ask another question to me.
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She just made it clear that she is interested in dating, she's just not interested in dating you... or having any contact beyond the bare minimum to remain civil. Give it up bro or you're just gonna look like a big vadge.
 
If she had responded in a positive, way I would tell you to give it a shot and see if something is still left between you. Since she didn't really show much interest, it looks like you don't have to decide what to do - her indifference made the decision for you.
 
Move on bro... dont waste your time with someone who doesn't want u anymore.. There are tons more out there
 
Depends on how good the oral was. From the sound of your post she was skilled. If so then its worth a shot for the booty. Unintended side effects will be massive stress and relationship problems.
 
Don't contact her on there.

If you want to see if she's still into you, instead - make your profile so amazingly alluring to her by describing: everything you want in a woman, what you want in a relationship, etc. When you do this, make sure to write the description that depicts everything she is. Next, take some awesome photos of you. Make sure to include some great ones with ex GF's who are hot.

Girls like to know that you can get something better than them. The fact that you are describing everything that she is in your profile will make her wonder what happened. This is sure to get her to contact you, even if only she is slightly interested or curious. At least to just talk about the past.

Now, what you want to do is have one of your buddies that is friends with one of her girlfriends casually chat them up and slip in that you have a profile on that dating site and how it's funny. Her girlfriend will wonder why it's funny. She'll of course have to go tell your ex and they'll look at it together.

BAM! You have your in.
 
wickedDUDE said:
i notice an ex of mine recently on a dating site.. we had a 2 yr. relationship that ended badly.. i broke up with her. was about 3 years ago. nobody cheated but she did some crazy jealous shit.

anyway i'm tempted to try and contact/meet up with her. half of me wants to do it, but the other half says its a bad idea and i get a heavy feeling in my stomach.

in some ways i think that we broke up at the wrong time, i decided to break up with her b/c i was really pissed at her at the time. i've also read that breaking up with somebody when you are emotionally charged is not the time to do it, it creates unresolved feelings which is what i have with her.

just looking to see what your thoughts are. i actually did just contact her.. i told her what was new with me and i asked her the same.. she didnt put much effort into her answer, and didnt ask another question to me.

anyway what are your thoughts? its sucks because she is really hot and i miss the old days if you know what i mean. we had some of the best and worst times together.
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not worth it in all seriousness there is way too much pussy on this planet to be going back to one chick
 
You brought your emotions in the wrong place. IMO, i bet you already have an account at this dating site. Contact her as if you are someone she does not know. (Fake Account). Im sure you have heard of Fake Name Generator. See what she talks about with you. Keep your convos online and when the time is right, bounce in as yourself and prove to her how you two were destined to be together. If that doesn't work, there always is a strip club at the end of the road.
 
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