Are hugs really that intimate of a thing? (In Japan)

What do you think...

  • I deserved to get my ass kicked

    Votes: 16 35.6%
  • I should've kicked his ass for being a dick

    Votes: 29 64.4%

  • Total voters
    45
He threatened to kill you? Is this dude Yakuza? It sounds weird. Maybe he went somewhere else and was drinking but this is weird. I can see a Japanese guy pushing you back or saying excuse me, but more than that is weird. Prob drunk as Moxxy said.

I cant imagine him leaving his girlfriend alone with 3 dudes. Especially foreign guys.

Maybe he was testting her and he didnt like how the test seemed to be going.

The politically correct thing would have been to shake her hand.

Japan is a complete mindfuck. You cant hold hands or kiss in public ever, but you can ask a Japanese girl back to a love hotel on the first date and do anything you like.

Enjoy the madness.
 


Japan is a complete mindfuck. You cant hold hands or kiss in public ever, but you can ask a Japanese girl back to a love hotel on the first date and do anything you like.

JAPAN HERE I COME MOTHERFUCKER!!!!!!!
 
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Yeah. Asians and hugging is a no-no from what I've seen unless A) You're close friends, B) You're all drunk, or C) The Asian has been educated internationally.
 
Well, i have spent 7 months 18 days in japan when i was 18, really a good and nice place to be. what i realize when i was there is - there women love sex and are not very open to it.

what i mean they act all cut and prudish, but they are animals in bed. how i came to realize that. my big brothers told me who lives in japs for the past 15 yea years told me a story on how "slutty" japanies women are. and that you can get them in 1 day. and i didnt believe admittedly i were young and naive as a 18 years old over grown kid. so he tells me do exactly as i say and you'll see i am right.

what he told me was. go to a random girl that looks like she was in your age - 16-20 (i was 18) then just tell her simply .. "where are you going" then she will answer, you escort her where ever she goes and at the end of her "trip" ask her to have a drink with you. then after this drink tell her you want to show her something you like. then take her to a "love hotel" (these are hotels you pay per hour and have sexual rooms - such as water beds, candles dungeon shit and other weird stuff but the main thing is you rent it per hour and the whole deal is to have sex in them) so , i build up courage because i wasnt that kind of guys who just talk to girls

i go to a random girl that looks nice and repeat the Japaneses sentence my brother told me. she didnt answer but she approved with her had so i go with some random japaneses girl - not speaking japanese at all. just some words.
and she takes me to places, then we go to a place we can drink something. we sit there for around 3 hours and we are about to go "home".

as we are going "home" i ask her . can i show you something , she is a bit more open and answer yes. i take her on her little scooter to the only "love hotel" i know in shiboya, half way there she understand whats going on but she didnt say anything, we stopped at place, at the first couple of minutes she show a little bit of resistance but i tell her - i love you and kiss her on her neck and from that moment there wasn't any resistance. she play along , we go to the reception and then i realize how "cheep" this place is needless to say what happen afterward.

Now the point of the story here, is that the women are so cheep, or at least unable to say no. so maybe her boyfriend knew that and feared for her and was trying to keep what his.

Also as me and my big brother love to go place one of the place we went to looks like a souna and "healing water" place which everyone goes naked.

being there i saw a lot of penises, very small ones. and from that i have a theory that since japnes guys have small ones. the girls want and goes with foreigners alot its a pretty common thing there and maybe he knew this also and was trying to take care of his women.

Anyways sorry for the long boring story. japan is a nice place to visit, but not a place to stay as a visitor for long time because everything is so darn expensive.

Thailand on the other hand is the place !!!
 
The chick used you to test her boyfriend... and he likely passed the test.

He goes home to a serious blowjob, you go to your hotel to commiserate with fellow affiliate losers (including myself!).
 
I don't think it's anything abnormal to hug. A lot of Japanese guys just have an extremely severe inferiority complex towards foreign guys. It usually manifests itself as kissing your ass, but when it involves girls that's when they can freak out and start challenging you. The club is like fucking cockblocker central. You don't need to know how to pick up girls, you need to know how to stop the fucking guys from butting in to rescue her.

Foreigners in Japan also have a bit of a reputation for being manwhores, so even though you're fresh off the plane you might have gotten stuck with that stigma. Its worst in Tokyo, I think (and amongst the nightclub crowd).


^^ THAT! Holy shit, nailed it so fukin' well!

I was cock blocked TWICE by the same fukin' dude in a club in Osaka, but he was so obvious about it that I got a bit concerned and decided to GTFO... but as far as hugging goes I would say it depends, I think in Asian cultures physical contact is not as normal as in european or american cultures...

Well, i have spent 7 months 18 days in japan when i was 18, really a good and nice place to be. what i realize when i was there is - there women love sex and are not very open to it.

what i mean they act all cut and prudish, but they are animals in bed. how i came to realize that. my big brothers told me who lives in japs for the past 15 yea years told me a story on how "slutty" japanies women are. and that you can get them in 1 day. and i didnt believe admittedly i were young and naive as a 18 years old over grown kid. so he tells me do exactly as i say and you'll see i am right.

what he told me was. go to a random girl that looks like she was in your age - 16-20 (i was 18) then just tell her simply .. "where are you going" then she will answer, you escort her where ever she goes and at the end of her "trip" ask her to have a drink with you. then after this drink tell her you want to show her something you like. then take her to a "love hotel" (these are hotels you pay per hour and have sexual rooms - such as water beds, candles dungeon shit and other weird stuff but the main thing is you rent it per hour and the whole deal is to have sex in them) so , i build up courage because i wasnt that kind of guys who just talk to girls

i go to a random girl that looks nice and repeat the Japaneses sentence my brother told me. she didnt answer but she approved with her had so i go with some random japaneses girl - not speaking japanese at all. just some words.
and she takes me to places, then we go to a place we can drink something. we sit there for around 3 hours and we are about to go "home".

as we are going "home" i ask her . can i show you something , she is a bit more open and answer yes. i take her on her little scooter to the only "love hotel" i know in shiboya, half way there she understand whats going on but she didnt say anything, we stopped at place, at the first couple of minutes she show a little bit of resistance but i tell her - i love you and kiss her on her neck and from that moment there wasn't any resistance. she play along , we go to the reception and then i realize how "cheep" this place is needless to say what happen afterward.

Now the point of the story here, is that the women are so cheep, or at least unable to say no. so maybe her boyfriend knew that and feared for her and was trying to keep what his.

Also as me and my big brother love to go place one of the place we went to looks like a souna and "healing water" place which everyone goes naked.

being there i saw a lot of penises, very small ones. and from that i have a theory that since japnes guys have small ones. the girls want and goes with foreigners alot its a pretty common thing there and maybe he knew this also and was trying to take care of his women.

Anyways sorry for the long boring story. japan is a nice place to visit, but not a place to stay as a visitor for long time because everything is so darn expensive.

Thailand on the other hand is the place !!!
+ 1 rep, not boring at all. I tried to invite the girls from the club in Osaka back to my hotel room, before getting savagely cock-blocked
 
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But seriously, I can assured you that in Japan, everything still related and connected and even live together with their old tradition, myth and superstition..So that's why you should get your ass kicked..
 
You should have pulled him aside and had a serious talk about 'penis enlargement' and then directed him to an offer.

He clearly has a small penis and is very worried.
 
All generalizations are false including this one. <-- This I mean.
Another generalization.

Most Asian Men are insecure when it comes to ladies, for whatever reasons.
Specially if the intruder is not Asian.

You should have falcon punced him anyway :-)
 
Yet guys (with other guys) don't hug except at really weird times...you just kinda have to know when the right time is.

I hug my guy friends all the time. As long as its been more than like a couple days since we've seen each other, we probably hug. Then again we're considerably more secure and awesome than most guys in general.


Well, i have spent 7 months 18 days in japan when i was 18...

First of all, sweet bump. 2nd, where the hell are you from?
 
I hug my guy friends all the time. As long as its been more than like a couple days since we've seen each other, we probably hug. Then again we're considerably more secure and awesome than most guys in general.

I assume you mean a shoulder to shoulder guy hug, and not a junk to junk full on man love, right? Oh wait, I forgot which forum I'm in.