I just had a really weird experience that I'm trying to figure out. Basically I started dating two girls right around the same time. I went out on 3 dates with one girl, and after the 3rd date I could tell she wasn't feeling it and so we said our goodbyes. At the same time, I went out on 2 dates with this other girl, and two weeks after it ended with girl 1, we were supposed to go on date 3. An hour before we're supposed to meet for our 3rd date, she texts me saying she "found out about my girlfriend and doesn't want to be a homewrecker even though she likes me a lot."
Firstly, the chances of these two girls meeting or someone knowing about me and both of them is like the chances of a meteor striking you dead while you sit on your computer. They live in different towns 30 mins apart and have almost no way of knowing each other. So I don't even know what girl 2 is referencing and she was apparently told this by someone she knows...but I've only even lived in this town for 4 months, so it's just a huge mindfuck.
Anyway, I explained to her via text (since she won't answer the phone) that I've only dated one other girl while seeing her, and it was just 3 dates that ended 2 weeks ago. I didn't consider that a gf, and don't even consider it wrong to date two people at once as long as you're not deceiving one. I felt like the "exclusivity talk" is something you have like 2 months in after you're really into each other, and anything before that is fair game.
Do you guys think there is anything wrong with dating 2 people at once, and if so, why? For those that date multiple girls at once, do you go out of your way to explain that on like date 2 or something? Normally I wouldn't even give this a second thought, but both of these girls were pretty great and if they actually found out about each other somehow, then I feel like I just lost my internet connection with pocket aces and 1 mill in the middle pre-flop. Sure, I could have still had a suckout, but jesus that's fucked.
What I probably missed out on:
Firstly, the chances of these two girls meeting or someone knowing about me and both of them is like the chances of a meteor striking you dead while you sit on your computer. They live in different towns 30 mins apart and have almost no way of knowing each other. So I don't even know what girl 2 is referencing and she was apparently told this by someone she knows...but I've only even lived in this town for 4 months, so it's just a huge mindfuck.
Anyway, I explained to her via text (since she won't answer the phone) that I've only dated one other girl while seeing her, and it was just 3 dates that ended 2 weeks ago. I didn't consider that a gf, and don't even consider it wrong to date two people at once as long as you're not deceiving one. I felt like the "exclusivity talk" is something you have like 2 months in after you're really into each other, and anything before that is fair game.
Do you guys think there is anything wrong with dating 2 people at once, and if so, why? For those that date multiple girls at once, do you go out of your way to explain that on like date 2 or something? Normally I wouldn't even give this a second thought, but both of these girls were pretty great and if they actually found out about each other somehow, then I feel like I just lost my internet connection with pocket aces and 1 mill in the middle pre-flop. Sure, I could have still had a suckout, but jesus that's fucked.
What I probably missed out on:
