Facebook Parenting: For the troubled teen.

Wants her to learn the value of a dollar yet gives money to her/allows others to give her money and expensive gifts.

Wants her to learn how to take care of things yet shoots up an expensive laptop with a gun (why not let her buy it from you or sell it).

Wants her to respect her family yet disrespects her publicly with a video that'll be online FOREVER.

Reactive, not proactive.
 


Hav3n said:
Doesn't matter how I would have handled it. She's not my kid.
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That just means you don't give a shit. I don't really give a shit either, but I can still have an opinion.

I don't see what he's trying to accomplish here. Is this going to be the parental act that finally gets her to stop being a little twat? I don't think so.

Does anyone else think so?

Anyone?

Raise your hand if you think this puts an end to her twatness?

No one?

hmmm...
 
Inb4 he's arrested for threatening to shoot her with the gun--that shit was veiled threat... to some I bet. Yeah, and hacking her FB account.
 
I'm not a parent, but my guess is that you do a lot of things by trial and error. He said he tried other methods such as grounding and conversation and she didn't listen, so he tried something a bit more extreme. If it works then it was worth it. And I mean, it's not like he shot her.
 
music4mic said:
I'm not a parent, but my guess is that you do a lot of things by trial and error. He said he tried other methods such as grounding and conversation and she didn't listen, so he tried something a bit more extreme. If it works then it was worth it. And I mean, it's not like he shot her.
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LOL I know, she just wouldn't fuckin' listen!!! I mean c'mon, she had the nerve to type out 2 paragraphs on facebook to her friends, that's preposterous!! She really needs put in her place, she outta consider other common forms of teenage rebellion first before doing something so drastic.. Couldn't she have at least stolen her dad's pickup truck along with a fifth of vodka and rampaged around town? Maybe snuck out late at night with her 19 year old boyfriend and got knocked up?

Kids these days, resorting to such extremes like venting petty teenage discrepancies on Facebook.
 
Phresh Content said:
Except that the very reason most people have kids in the first place is to please themselves. They don't do it because they want to bring a great person into the world, they do it because they think it'll improve their own life/status. Then when the kid becomes more than they can handle they're just a burden/obligation. It's like when people get pets, except that pets are much faster/easier to get and get rid of.
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Well I'm not sure what that had to do with anything I said, but to that I'll say, Of course. Everyone has kids for selfish reasons, I would think that would be obvious. With 7 billion people out there, it's not like anyone is trying to populate the world here. I would hope, however, those selfish reasons are to enrich yours and your family's lives, but I can't speak for everyone out there. Again, don't see what that has to do with educating yourself to be a better parent, though.
 
dreamache said:
LOL I know, she just wouldn't fuckin' listen!!! I mean c'mon, she had the nerve to type out 2 paragraphs on facebook to her friends, that's preposterous!! She really needs put in her place, she outta consider other common forms of teenage rebellion first before doing something so drastic.. Couldn't she have at least stolen her dad's pickup truck along with a fifth of vodka and rampaged around town? Maybe snuck out late at night with her 19 year old boyfriend and got knocked up?

Kids these days, resorting to such extremes like venting petty teenage discrepancies on Facebook.
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I mean I don't think what she wrote was that bad, but it's not my kid. He obviously thought it was disrespectful and embarrassing.
 
As a father of 3, I try to not judge other people's parenting styles and how they handle situations because you do not know the whole story and everything that led up to the discipline. All the time you hear about, those with no kids, confronting a parent for yelling at their kid or smacking their kid - but they weren't around for the 50 times the parent told their kid not to do whatever it is they were doing wrong.

With that said, this guy is full of fail. I want to show you the value of a dollar by destroying a $1500 laptop that I just put $130 of software on with a clip of $1 bullets. I want you to stop disrespecting me and your mother, by disrespecting you in front of the entire world. I want you to make good decisions at the age of 15, by sitting there smoking a death stick.
 
At the end of the day...

His daughter knows that he cares about her behavior
 
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turbolapp said:
Well I'm not sure what that had to do with anything I said, but to that I'll say, Of course. Everyone has kids for selfish reasons, I would think that would be obvious. With 7 billion people out there, it's not like anyone is trying to populate the world here. I would hope, however, those selfish reasons are to enrich yours and your family's lives, but I can't speak for everyone out there. Again, don't see what that has to do with educating yourself to be a better parent, though.
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lol ya you're right, all I really was trying to say is that it's great to educate yourself and "do the right thing" and raise a great kid the right way, but that's something you have to want or intend, which most people do not.
 
I'm completely against the idea of entitlements, welfare, and socialism in general but when it's your own children it's entirely different. One of the consequences of having kids is your lifetime responsibility of providing for them and ensuring their success. It's ridiculous that some people seem to think that having kids gives them the right to have free slaves and command them to do whatever they want. This mentality is perfect for building a submissive communist/fascist/totalitarian-ready society. I can't believe so many people support this guy. First he disrespects her by treating her as a subhuman that lacks the fundamental right to free speech, then he demonstrates his view that she and her stuff is worthless and that it's acceptable to destroy property out of anger. He is clearly a very violent psychotic individual.


This guy deserves no respect. Anyone with any intelligence will see that his daughter's safest route is to pretend to be okay with his control-freak nature and in a "truce" with what this retard says, but deep inside, she will always resent him.


So many people here seem to have such great logic when it comes to questioning their own government and protecting their own constitutional rights but when it comes to parenting, they suddenly expect children to be submissive servants with no right to express free speech or free thoughts. If you people want to live in a free society, doesn't it make the most sense to raise one?
 
Tommy Chong said:
I'm completely against the idea of entitlements, welfare, and socialism in general but when it's your own children it's entirely different. One of the consequences of having kids is your lifetime responsibility of providing for them and ensuring their success. It's ridiculous that some people seem to think that having kids gives them the right to have free slaves and command them to do whatever they want. This mentality is perfect for building a submissive communist/fascist/totalitarian-ready society. I can't believe so many people support this guy. First he disrespects her by treating her as a subhuman that lacks the fundamental right to free speech, then he demonstrates his view that she and her stuff is worthless and that it's acceptable to destroy property out of anger. He is clearly a very violent psychotic individual.


This guy deserves no respect. Anyone with any intelligence will see that his daughter's safest route is to pretend to be okay with his control-freak nature and in a "truce" with what this retard says, but deep inside, she will always resent him.


So many people here seem to have such great logic when it comes to questioning their own government and protecting their own constitutional rights but when it comes to parenting, they suddenly expect children to be submissive servants with no right to express free speech or free thoughts. If you people want to live in a free society, doesn't it make the most sense to raise one?
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What you didn't see: his daughter grows up to become a porn star and gets drill by big black dicks.

BUT L-O-L - the father's demeanor reeks of betaness.
 
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