Some says optimists believe your luck will improve. Realist say you got to be realistic. Why not be both? Just look at aspects of reality that's on your side that's reasonably positive.
1. Women (hot women) don't want me.
Truth:
a. Imagine if there is no other man in the world, can you get miss universe? Of course. The issue is not that girls don't want you. The issue is they prefer other men even more. So what difference does it make? quite significant. For example, most men are shy. She doesn't even know more. Getting to know girls even for buddies is a plus.
b. So the real issues are competitors. Not getting girls does not mean you are inferior. It's NORMAL for girls to EASILY get guys rather than the other way around. Women in 70% mate value can easily get a man with 90% percentile mate value. The reason why is simple. Males aim for quantity rather than quality. So, even average or above average looking women will never run out of high quality males. So if there are more men chasing her rather than girls chasing you, it's normal.
c. Now let's examine competitors again. Compete globally. Look at your wealth percentile. Compare your self with a caveman that leave in Afghanistan. Can you make better offers? Can you pay her more? Can you provide more for her kids? Do you like stoning girls to death? Obviously you are BETTER than afghan males. You can compete. It's just a matter of giving choices.
Yes many of those choices are illegal. Here is something I learn about live. The truly best deals are always "grey", never white. Humans are so bigotic that when something makes you happy, someone somewhere somehow will say it's wrong. Doesn't mean women don't want that. Just "whisper" the offer rather than screaming your lungs out. You don't ask people to rob bank by putting ads in newspaper right? The path of salvation will always be narrow. Go through the narrow path.
2. Understand Women.
No body is an expert on this. My knowledge is far from perfect. However, we know the basic.
a. What societies tell you about women are often the exact opposite of truth.
Think about it. Most societies are your competitors. They don't want you to succeed. People are envious. Deep down they want to prevent others from being happier than them.
Claim: Love is blind.
Truth: opposite
Claim: No women want to be prostitute
Truth: Most essentially are. The prettier the more. That's the whole point of being pretty.
Claim: If you want to be happy women, don't marry a rich man. If you want to be a happy men, don't marry a pretty women.
Truth: Exact opposite.
Claim: Women want to be "loved"
Truth: Features of romantic love, exclusivity, devotion, and promise for huge alimony, is socially constructed to kick out most desirable males out of mating market.
Claim: No women want to share
Truth: If all else are equal, women prefer studs.
Claim: Man and women are equal
Truth: Success for males means getting rich. Women that work too hard to get rich go extinct.
b. If you have a daughter, what kind of man you want to be the biological father of your grand children. That should not be far from what girls want in a mate.
Do you want your daughter to get knocked up by a rich smart handsome best selling nobel prize winner or by some losers that promise exclusivity. Think about it.
That means rich.
3. Makes the deal sweeter.
Do you really want her just for your self? Share.
If all else fail, pay prostitute for training. Duh. You need experience.
Watch porn.
I don't know all about women. Yes you will fail. THere is no one sure way to get laid. So try and try again. It's like business. You don't always succeed. You learn you try again. If you always fear to try you'll never achieve anything.
If you watch so many porn you won't be that hungry for women. Women avoid hungry men. So watching porn will help you train the right mindset.
Above all, avoid marriage.
Good luck.
1. Women (hot women) don't want me.
Truth:
a. Imagine if there is no other man in the world, can you get miss universe? Of course. The issue is not that girls don't want you. The issue is they prefer other men even more. So what difference does it make? quite significant. For example, most men are shy. She doesn't even know more. Getting to know girls even for buddies is a plus.
b. So the real issues are competitors. Not getting girls does not mean you are inferior. It's NORMAL for girls to EASILY get guys rather than the other way around. Women in 70% mate value can easily get a man with 90% percentile mate value. The reason why is simple. Males aim for quantity rather than quality. So, even average or above average looking women will never run out of high quality males. So if there are more men chasing her rather than girls chasing you, it's normal.
c. Now let's examine competitors again. Compete globally. Look at your wealth percentile. Compare your self with a caveman that leave in Afghanistan. Can you make better offers? Can you pay her more? Can you provide more for her kids? Do you like stoning girls to death? Obviously you are BETTER than afghan males. You can compete. It's just a matter of giving choices.
Yes many of those choices are illegal. Here is something I learn about live. The truly best deals are always "grey", never white. Humans are so bigotic that when something makes you happy, someone somewhere somehow will say it's wrong. Doesn't mean women don't want that. Just "whisper" the offer rather than screaming your lungs out. You don't ask people to rob bank by putting ads in newspaper right? The path of salvation will always be narrow. Go through the narrow path.
2. Understand Women.
No body is an expert on this. My knowledge is far from perfect. However, we know the basic.
a. What societies tell you about women are often the exact opposite of truth.
Think about it. Most societies are your competitors. They don't want you to succeed. People are envious. Deep down they want to prevent others from being happier than them.
Claim: Love is blind.
Truth: opposite
Claim: No women want to be prostitute
Truth: Most essentially are. The prettier the more. That's the whole point of being pretty.
Claim: If you want to be happy women, don't marry a rich man. If you want to be a happy men, don't marry a pretty women.
Truth: Exact opposite.
Claim: Women want to be "loved"
Truth: Features of romantic love, exclusivity, devotion, and promise for huge alimony, is socially constructed to kick out most desirable males out of mating market.
Claim: No women want to share
Truth: If all else are equal, women prefer studs.
Claim: Man and women are equal
Truth: Success for males means getting rich. Women that work too hard to get rich go extinct.
b. If you have a daughter, what kind of man you want to be the biological father of your grand children. That should not be far from what girls want in a mate.
Do you want your daughter to get knocked up by a rich smart handsome best selling nobel prize winner or by some losers that promise exclusivity. Think about it.
That means rich.
3. Makes the deal sweeter.
Do you really want her just for your self? Share.
If all else fail, pay prostitute for training. Duh. You need experience.
Watch porn.
I don't know all about women. Yes you will fail. THere is no one sure way to get laid. So try and try again. It's like business. You don't always succeed. You learn you try again. If you always fear to try you'll never achieve anything.
If you watch so many porn you won't be that hungry for women. Women avoid hungry men. So watching porn will help you train the right mindset.
Above all, avoid marriage.
Good luck.
