Lessening Outcome Dependence In High Stakes Internet Marketing

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One of the things that has held me back substantially early on as an internet marketer is the pressure and anxiety of outcome dependence.
For me, it comes from thinking too much about the end result,too much about the money.

When you put the end result at the forefront of your mind, the money,the cars, the lifestyle; it makes simple tasks seem more grandiose and business decisions
more complicated than they really need to be.

I find when you just focus on the task at hand, from a relaxed, analytical perspective rather than the rushed nervousness of a high pressure business situation, I find I get more done and tend to be way more creative.

I feel a lot of the ability to do this comes from the self confidence that even if you fail you will be able to pick yourself back up again, time after time.

It is easier said than done though. The fact of the matter is that this is a strange mental game we play.
For us, Simple abstract ideas and analytical tasks on the computer can have such a profound effect on our lives.
We all know the truth, the results of this shit are deadly serious and can absolutely change your life.
In this modern society, if you have a passive six or seven figures coming in you are in a much better position.
It removes many limits and allows you to live a much better life.
You can't lie to yourself, this shit is high stakes/high pressure.

I was wondering how you guys help keep yourselves cool and working hard.
Do some of you like the pressure?
 


This is true in my experience, if I was too invested in the end results and tried to motivate myself with the presents I'd be able to afford if everything went as planned... Then I became far too analytical about it to the point of procrastination.

But when I just took a more relaxed attitude and simply wanted to create things for the sake of giving life to my projects, not being worried about the outcomes very much at all. I was much more productive and the outcomes of the projects were better than expected.
 
This is true in my experience, if I was too invested in the end results and tried to motivate myself with the presents I'd be able to afford if everything went as planned... Then I became far too analytical about it to the point of procrastination.

But when I just took a more relaxed attitude and simply wanted to create things for the sake of giving life to my projects, not being worried about the outcomes very much at all. I was much more productive and the outcomes of the projects were better than expected.

100% exactly the point I was trying to get across.