My best friend was killed last night

Same thing almost happened to the wife and I just this week. Thought I going to have a heart attack. As luck would have it I got in front of the car before it could happen. Driver cussed me out for running in front of him.

Still scares the bejeezus out of me when I think about it.
 


Sorry to hear Mike.

Our family pet had to be put down last year due to old age (was suffering every step/day/etc and had gone deaf and partially blind, and was bitter). It fucking rocked my moms world, and then mine. Will never forget our 'last day'.

My mom swore there would never ever be another pet that would replace DJ (yes we named a dog DJ, and yes it was because I used to be one, and thought it would be cool in my teens), and the thought of another dog was like cheating, not allowed.... however within a month, we got another puppy because there is a big void/gap/hole in your house and heart. Once the pain settles there is a need to continue the legacy.

Our new pet has a different name but when I visit I still catch her calling the dog DJ instead of Leo, and it's awesome.

Hoping you cope well and in time perhaps a new lil' guy/gal will pop into your lives to carry on your best bro's memories.

Thanks for making me think of DJ too +1. :)
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shawnhag said:
damn mike very sorry, my condolences.

this is actually my worst fear with my dog. he is very well trained to sit, beg even "high 5" and he can "praise the lord" with his paws, however he is very impulsive whenever the door is opened he will try as hard as he can to bolt out front. not a very busy street but cars do cruise by at 20mph and he only weighs 4.0lbs

anyway very sorry mike you are a staple of this board and we are your family; and we feel your loss deeply and truly.
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Probably the wrong place to ask, but why no fence? I've always favored fences for privacy and if you have a dog that just gives you one more reason to fence it up.
 
That sucks Mike.

It's always hard to lose a member of the family; whether they had two legs, or four.
 
Mike said:
My whole world is in a fog right now. My dog, my companion, my best friend, was hit by a car in front of our house last night. He was probably dead before I reached him 15 secs later.

Take a minute to give your dog or cat a hug and tell them you love them. Pets are our furry children.

I miss Brutus.
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Mike I'm really sorry for your loss. I understand.

I've had dogs (I treat em like they're the little brothers I never had) and I have one now.
 
Mike said:
Thank you all. I guess that's why I posted here. Not sure how to deal with this. Crying doesn't seem to help, but the tears flow anyways. So, I thought maybe talking to some friends would help.

No, we don't know who did it. A witness said that they saw it happen and the person just kept driving, but that's all we have. I didn't get her name to call later. My focus was on helping my dog.

The one good thing in all this: the last moments I spent with him was sitting on the couch with Brutus on my lap (60 pound basset hound that thought he was a lap dog) petting him and telling him "You're my buddy." He died knowing he was loved.

Gotta go. More tears. Spend some time with your pets. Let them know you love them.
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I feel for you man. Three weeks ago I was put in an impossible spot and had to smother my best pal of 14 years (worst moment of my life.) The only thing I can suggest is what most people avoid doing right away: Get another dog. It might seem like it's too soon, but I got a new dog 5 days after my pal died, and it sure helped with some of the mourning -- no dog can replace another, but the puppy I have now doesn't give me time to sit around sobbing and thinking about what I lost.

I'm not sure I would even be functional if I hadn't got a new dog, and I rescued him from a shelter too; so a dog who didn't have love in his life was given a chance to be part of mine. What you're saying really hits home, and I hope you feel better soon.
 
Man, sorry you lost your buddy. It's tough, I know. At least it sounds like he didn't suffer...that's the worst. While you think you know how much you love your pets, it's so much clearer when you have to experience that hole they leave when they're gone.

My 10 year-old lab passed in May. It devastated me...didn't see it coming.
Wait awhile until you're ready, but getting another dog will help the whole family. Especially if it's a young, hardheaded Pit mix like the one we picked up from a shelter in August.
 
In case anyone who's lost a pet hasn't come by this little poem:

Just this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge. When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge. There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can run and play together. There is plenty of food, water and sunshine, and our friends are warm and comfortable.
All the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor. Those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days and times gone by. The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing; they each miss someone very special to them, who had to be left behind. They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance. His bright eyes are intent. His eager body quivers. Suddenly he begins to run from the group, flying over the green grass, his legs carrying him faster and faster.
You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress the beloved head, and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone from your life but never absent from your heart.
Then you cross Rainbow Bridge together....
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We often get attached to animals more than we can ever related to the humans. I lost my Blackie (A pup I found on the streets) 3 months ago. I can relate to the pain.

May Brutus RIP.
 
Sorry about your loss. May Brutus rest in peace. I know how it feels. I live in Arizona and some folks are pretty hostile towards coyotes so they leave dog food out that they've poisoned with antifreeze. My dog got into some & died a slow, painful death. Cried for months.
 
thats the worst, sorry to hear that. I don't know what I will do when my dogs pass. I rescued mine, and just because of their history before owning them, I always treat them 10x better then a normal owner would , play and what not with them as much as I can every day.
 
sorry to hear about this man. losing pets is the worst. i love dogs, lost mine a few years ago when i was in college - definately not easy. Also for you it's tough dealing with the circumstances.

my hear goes out to u man
 
Thanks everyone. We're doing better today. Everyday it will get easier, and having another dog actually helps too. Lucy - the tri-color bassett in the last pic - misses Brutus too. She's taken to sleeping in his spot on the blue couch, and looks for him everytime she goes outside. We're giving her lots of love so she doesn't get depressed and stop eating.

Thanks again for all the well wishes. I really appreciate it.
 
Mike said:
Thanks everyone. We're doing better today. Everyday it will get easier, and having another dog actually helps too. Lucy - the tri-color bassett in the last pic - misses Brutus too. She's taken to sleeping in his spot on the blue couch, and looks for him everytime she goes outside. We're giving her lots of love so she doesn't get depressed and stop eating.

Thanks again for all the well wishes. I really appreciate it.
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I was wondering about the other one in the pic. That's going to be hard for her, but at least you guys acknowledged that. Sorry for your loss bro.
 
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