So my husband lives with another woman....

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Aniston said:
Hummmm....I have lived within my means for a very long time thank you. I never planned on my husband ditching our family and letting us down as a man. This could happen to you someday....Fuck-You very much!
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It can't happen to me someday because I don't sponge off my girl. I make the money, and I pay the bills. If she lost her job, my bills still get paid.

So fuck you very much. You should have sold your car the minute you couldn't afford it.

I'd tell you to man up, but that won't work. Watch Oprah or something. Go find some other swinging dick to pay your bills. Sell your body. Just stop fucking whining.
 


Is there any chance your realtor will terminate their listing agreement prior to auction?
 
powell1 said:
Is there any chance your realtor will terminate their listing agreement prior to auction?
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Well there is a possible "Short Sell" we can do...and so we are looking into that. Basically it would stop the foreclosure but it's not in stone yet and with a short sell you don't make any money on the house which I wouldn't anyway with a foreclosure. Basically my credit would be spared...which is a good thing.
 
Like others have said (and you are doing), sell your house and get a used car. You already have a job, so you're already one step ahead of millions of other people right now.

If I sold off a 600K house for even half that, I wouldn't have to work for 10 years, seriously. I'm cheap as hell, because it's a nice lifestyle. Get rid of all your crap and you'll have more than enough money to support yourself and a kid.

Hell, half the girls I know are single moms (under 30) and do just fine on $25k a year.
 
LotsOfZeros said:
Aniston, don't worry about Unarmed. He's really a compassionate liberal. Can't you tell?
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LOL...Yea...he obviously hasn't lived long. Unarmed...you could get sick and not be able to work....things happen in life...you better learn fast.
 
Aniston said:
Well there is a possible "Short Sell" we can do...and so we are looking into that. Basically it would stop the foreclosure but it's not in stone yet and with a short sell you don't make any money on the house which I wouldn't anyway with a foreclosure. Basically my credit would be spared...which is a good thing.
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If whatever you are working on falls through, PM me. I work with short sales all the time. And as far as not making any money after a short sale, that's not entirely true. If the person buying the house gets a good enough deal, ask them to write you a check outside of closing. If I buy a short sale, I won't let people go with nothing (unless they have made the process a pain in the ass, or they are assholes).

At any rate, I might be able to help you out if it comes to it.
 
powell1 said:
If whatever you are working on falls through, PM me. I work with short sales all the time. And as far as not making any money after a short sale, that's not entirely true. If the person buying the house gets a good enough deal, ask them to write you a check outside of closing. If I buy a short sale, I won't let people go with nothing (unless they have made the process a pain in the ass, or they are assholes).

At any rate, I might be able to help you out if it comes to it.
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Are you serious? I never heard of that! Gosh...to walk away with any amount of money at closing would be a miracle. Thank you...I am going to check into this.
 
Aniston said:
...to walk away with any amount of money at closing would be a miracle.
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Careful how you phrase that, you can't get money at the actual closing. See, when the lender looks at the settlement sheet, it needs to show you getting nothing. Obviously, if they are writing off any amount, they don't want you getting anything. So any money given to you will have to be done outside of closing between you and the buyer, off the books.
 
powell1 said:
Careful how you phrase that, you can't get money at the actual closing. See, when the lender looks at the settlement sheet, it needs to show you getting nothing. Obviously, if they are writing off any amount, they don't want you getting anything. So any money given to you will have to be done outside of closing between you and the buyer, off the books.
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Ok...I see you mean....good to know!
 
Aniston said:
LOL...Yea...he obviously hasn't lived long. Unarmed...you could get sick and not be able to work....things happen in life...you better learn fast.
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I've been around a while - spent 7 years in prison so I know about hard times. I know about losing everything. I also know that you were living within your husband's means, not your own. If you were living within your own means, him leaving wouldn't matter.

Don't forget - you told him to leave, so deal with the consequences. Stop bitching because he left an older woman that was driving around his luxury car, living in his $600k house, spending his money, for a younger prettier bitch that is lower maintenance and probably swallows.

You told him to leave, do you blame him?
 
I hate to say it but perhaps your "husband" could provide a more stable/comfortable life for your child temporarily until you get back on your feet. I am curious, your internet is connected (or maybe not) but your water has been shut off? Another piece of advice may be to prioritize.


I wish you the best of luck
 
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Janaic said:
I hate to say it but perhaps your "husband" could provide a more stable/comfortable life for your child temporarily until you get back on your feet. I am curious, your internet is connected (or maybe not) but your water has been shut off? Another piece of advice may be to prioritize.


I wish you the best of luck
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Well said.
 
LotsOfZeros said:
You and me both. You'd think with his rants of self reliance and accountability that he was getting all conservative on us. I'm not sure I'm ready for a conservative Unarmed Gunman.
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Are you sure you or popeye didn't just jack his account? On second thought, those comments are even too cold for you two.
 
Janaic said:
I hate to say it but perhaps your "husband" could provide a more stable/comfortable life for your child temporarily until you get back on your feet. I am curious, your internet is connected (or maybe not) but your water has been shut off? Another piece of advice may be to prioritize.


I wish you the best of luck
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Good point but I'm sure it's going to be turned off any moment. You can go three months without paying but not the water.
 
Unarmed Gunman said:
I've been around a while - spent 7 years in prison so I know about hard times. I know about losing everything. I also know that you were living within your husband's means, not your own. If you were living within your own means, him leaving wouldn't matter.

Don't forget - you told him to leave, so deal with the consequences. Stop bitching because he left an older woman that was driving around his luxury car, living in his $600k house, spending his money, for a younger prettier bitch that is lower maintenance and probably swallows.

You told him to leave, do you blame him?
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You do know that when two people, who care about eachother, live together, they tend to share things. It's not about living within ones means, it's about living within your families means.

If you take away half of the income from 90% of the families in America, they would be in the same spot. If you would pull your head out of your ass you would realize that.
 
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