WF pimps get in here... I want to keep her, hit me with your wisdom.

Sticks be careful, I sense you're approaching Whipped-Ville.

There is no magic gift or something special to do other than being yourself. Do you think one tip given so far is going to bring you closer together? Only you can do that.

A steak dinner or box of chocolates or roses isn't going to propel your relationship to the next level. Why are you worried so much about keeping this girl? Just be yourself and do normal things you usually do with her...
 


Don't be needy or clingy, and don't glorify her. Gotta have that somewhat careless attitude. Don't overdo it though, pretty easy to see through. It's more of a state of mind sort of thing.

Now I'm not sure how many times you've met her, or if you've had sex? How physical is your relationship? From your post I assume you've met her at least a couple of times. If you haven't done so yet it is time to get physical! Make her feel comfortable, then get her somewhere were the two of you are alone and escalate, then close the deal. Bam! Make sure you lead the interaction were you want it to go. You are the man here, so you gotta take charge if you want it to go somewhere, because girls often won't (lead or take initiative), even though they may want to.
 
Agree with what's been said, getting her with anything other than you being 100% yourself won't last.
 
Roundabout said:
Sticks be careful, I sense you're approaching Whipped-Ville.

There is no magic gift or something special to do other than being yourself. Do you think one tip given so far is going to bring you closer together? Only you can do that.

A steak dinner or box of chocolates or roses isn't going to propel your relationship to the next level. Why are you worried so much about keeping this girl? Just be yourself and do normal things you usually do with her...
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UnripeArbiter said:
Good point, not to sound like a dick.

Sticks, you're already in the mind state to serve and please. (synonymous with "Whipped-Ville".)

Be yourself. (or you'll end up seeming "clingy" like ^ said.)
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No, no, no, not whipped, this girl is just something else, I've been with a lot of girls, she's different in every way.
 
1) Tell her that you should go out late Saturday night cause you have to work. (Say around 11ish-12ish.)

2) Text her at 10ish and say you have to do video conferences with some guys and you just can't get away tonight. (Act different - she'll be disappointed and because she's a) sad or b) it's too late at night she won't go out with friends.)

3) Hire a limo to go to her house(You'll be in the back obviously.) Get the driver to go ring the doorbell and hand her a dozen roses and get him to tell her your waiting.

4) Than take her out to a romantic spot. Nowhere's fancy because she'll probs be under dressed. Just go where there's a great view, maybe somewhere's you've never been, and talk.

5) If you want to really sweep her off her feet than already have a spot laid out with stuff. (You know her well enough to know where she likes, where she doesn't etc.)

6) ???

7) Profit.

...No need to thank me - I know it's pretty genius. This won't get you paid, but it will get ya fucking laid. :)

Guaranteed.
 
Dont try too much at all, because you are just setting the bar high for yourself ongoing. Ever been with a girl and she is like "you used to do this, this and this ..."?
 
Maybe you should experiment sexually with her.

Take it to a place that you've never gone with another woman.

Get creative, I'm sure you haven't experienced every combination of sexual desires that you possess.

Pick one of those desires and then pick her to perform it on.

Pleasure for both parties. (if you pick a good one, it'll be new for her too)

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Hey, wait a minute, your not keeping us going for some kinda blog post your making are you? Jk. ;)
 
Dude, you need to show her who's boss. Take her out for some drinks and bring her back to your place. If you want to keep her around, you'll need to lay some good pipe. If you dick her down good enough, she'll always come back to you. Even when she's in a relationship with another man. Now go out there and turn that vag into roast beef!
 
That depends. Is a douchebag on the internet a douchebag in real life? At least in this case? If so, you can kiss her goodbye.

Want to know how my boyfriend swept me off my feet?

Rose petals. On the bed. I'm not joking with you Sticks. Do it.
 
If you want to keep her, just say this:

"Bitch, you're mine. Your ass isn't going a mother fucking place so, buckle up for the long haul"

You see, Women don't know what to do or think - Until a man tells them. I thought everyone already knew that?

If it doesn't work though, just duck tape her ass to the basement wall.
 
Zikhth said:
That depends. Is a douchebag on the internet a douchebag in real life? At least in this case? If so, you can kiss her goodbye.

Want to know how my boyfriend swept me off my feet?

Rose petals. On the bed. I'm not joking with you Sticks. Do it.
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Was it the rose petals on the bed or the dick he threw you after the fact?

Just wonderin...
 
Andrew Scherer said:
You've got an awful frame bro but I think that it's pretty normal because of the movies and advice about women we get from other women.

First thing you shouldn't be taking it all seriously. If it works out between you two then it does and it if doesnt it doesn't.

Second I wouldn't even consider doing anything outrageous to win her over romantically (no flowers, gifts, romantic dinner dates, etc etc) until you guys have fucked. Have you fucked?

If you haven't take her out to drinks and then bring her back to your pad. Escalate and see where it goes.

She already knows if she's going to sleep with you or not, all you have to do is find out what the answer is.

The best thing you can do right now is not get stuck on 1 girl and talk to as many other girls as you can. This makes you more sexually attractive to other girls than anything else.
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Listen to the man. I've already gathered from a post here and there that Andrew knows his shit and has a solid background in this stuff.

You can't approach things with the attitude of "I really want this specific girl". Have fun with it, enjoy finding out what she's all about ('cuz I'm sure there's a lot you don't know about her), but always keep in mind that she is just one of millions upon millions of attractive girls you can get with. Even if you don't want to, I'd go out and meet other girls just to remind yourself of that so you don't get all needy with this girl. Girls can smell if you've got other options, they're like wolves. They can even smell the difference via text message, the shit gets that subtle. So there's nothing you can really do as in player tricks, but you can just live in a way that makes you non-needy. For now I think the quickest way to do that is hit a bar and meets some more girls. If you live in buttfuck nowhere then even an online dating site will help to a certain extent. You might even meet someone better than this chick and wonder why you were so keen in the first place.

edit: on second read I see that you've already got this girl. So I assume you've fucked her and you want to keep her. But I think it's the same anyway. Girls will keep someone who is in demand. So even if you're exclusive with your girl and not "picking up" others, still being social and knowing people (including girls!) at the places you go to, being well-liked in your circle, being the center of attention sometimes (like, you could organize some outings or gatherings for your friends -- that is really attractive, 'cuz you're the leader), being friendly and outgoing with new people you meet so she can see other people's good reactions to you, etc. All that good feedback she sees from people around you makes her like you more and want to hold onto you so none of those other people can get you.

I've been out of the field for like 6 months just doing IM so I'm living vicariously through you. lol
 
Zikhth said:
It was the rose petals.
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did those rose petals vibrate? :338:
 
obvious: you need to take your sexual game to the next level.. show her things she hasn't experienced by being a superstar.

-try buddha fucking (9 shallow thrust, 1 deep, 8 shallow, 2 deep all the way down to 9 deep 1 shallow then go backwards)
-massage oil deluxe. all the girls leaving my bedroom 99% of the time say the same thing "OMG LOOK AT MY HAIR OMG" cause they're little supple bodies and clothes are so drenched in massage oil. nothing better than 2 fucking hot glistening bodies intertiwing with silky oil
-most importantly, give it to her, then take it away and make her beg for it.
-threesomes. lots of times dudes are wondering how to do these. just ask in a playful way, keep pushing it. even take it upon yourself to set one up yourself (lots of girls are down for this, more than youd think)
-talking dirty.. take this shit to the next level by really making her feel like a naughty girl, and that she's ''all yours'' for you to do whatever you want to her little frame. mix this with going down on her + boob massage + clit and vaginal orgasms and she'll explode
-make her say "i love you" to you right as she orgasms.. that will flip a switch inside her head that i have found to be extremely intense. dont do that though unless you're ready for it.. and with that comes responsibility, so dont do that and then fuck her up later on.

as for none sex advice, the one who cares least controls the relationship. if you're looking to control her (which doesn't end up being satisfying in the end) then go that route, feign being uninterested/unpredictable. generally though, good relationships come from caring and love, but at the same time making sure you don't take any shit and that none of your boundaries and values are compromised. above all, always be leading. the second you give someone else the responsibility over yourself to take direction of things and release the tension, the second she will lose interest.
 
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