WF pimps get in here... I want to keep her, hit me with your wisdom.

Enigmabomb said:
If you get bummed out easily don't read the following:

Everything you have with this girl can be totally, and unexplainably lost in a matter of seconds for reasons you wont, and may never understand.

To this end, you need to understand that until you find one that you either knock up or marry, this will continue.

Thusly, it's in your best interest to be true to YOURSELF, have a good time, and take everything at face value for what it is: enjoying yourself in a relationship with this girl.

As marketers, we often try to plot and scheme our way to favorable outcomes. Believe me when I tell you I wish I had a call to action button around my crotch. However, there is nothing we can ever really do to influence the emotions of others once the mind has been made up.

Drawing on this notion, you should enjoy the time you have with her. If you are having a good time, tell her. Avoid ambiguity and abstraction. But at the end of the day, this girl has probably broken hearts before, and yours maybe next. It's important that you realize that there is nothing you can really do about this but enjoy what you have now, and be true to yourself.
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QFT, so true, oh so true.

papajohn56 said:
lol these thread tags
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Ahahaha just read them, yeah ok I kidnapped her but she developed stockholm syndrome, so it's all good.
 


aight .. to the OP

sorry i didnt read throught this whole thread but here is the advice i can give you

1. are you sure she may be interested? you need to know this, or else you may have "oneitis" this is when u obsess over a chick thinking shes amazing and she prolly doens't seem you anywhere close to this. if this is the case, stop

2. if she does like you, play it cool. dont jump at every oportunity you have to be w/ her .. don't be needy

3. i dont know what type of chick she is but don't start doing everything she wants just bc u like her. dont be weird and start getting her flowers. just take it slow. you said you met her, ask her if she wants to go on a date, dont come off needy, take her back to ur place if you want. just be pimp. make her want you, b/c if u want her and she feels that .. its game over and you dont want that
 
Listen, just be yourself. Tell her to GTFO and see how she responds.

BTW, rose petals on the bed is the romantic equivalent of stealing some elses landing page.
 
Quick tip: Don't ever criticize her looks, which is the equivalent to her telling you that you're too small.

An ex-bf made some devastatingly cruel comments to me, and we didn't speak again. That could happen to you.
 
Etherswift said:
if you want to follow this piece of advice, at least make it so it doesn't seem like you're questioning her or something (it's going to be near to impossible, that's why I'd advise against it)..

if she realizes what you're doing (and she will if she's not a dumbwit), then you're going to spoil all the fun, since she already told you what she likes - and this most likely means you ARE going to do those things.. best way is to discover yourself (yea, a lot harder, but a lot more rewarding)
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In the post you quoted it *also* says:

"Of course, don't sit there and quiz her, learn about her naturally, but with a purpose."

The info in my last post is not armchair theory. It's tried and tested info from practical experience in the field (getting off my ass, going out there, getting my ass kicked and improving).

Why advise against it!?! She wont realise anything if you ask correctly. What's so hard/wrong/blatant about slipping in a few questions about her ideals?

And I'm not talking about making things 'a lot harder, but a lot more rewarding'. I'm talking about Sticks getting the results he wants as quickly as possible.

Another thing that I've found a lot of women like is if you're a funny guy. I know not everyone can pull this off, but if you can, most of the time you can really make her feel great about her time with you.

All the best, peoples.
 
turbolapp said:
If you really want to keep this woman don't listen to a single piece of advice out of this thread.
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Thanks turbo.

God this thread is such a trainwreck.

Seriously, people? This is like hearing 10th graders talk about girls. :confused:

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This thread reminded of a kickass movie I haven't seen in a long time "The Tao Of Steve"

Anybody remember this movie?

Sticks, you should watch it!
 
Zikhth said:
That depends. Is a douchebag on the internet a douchebag in real life? At least in this case? If so, you can kiss her goodbye.

Want to know how my boyfriend swept me off my feet?

Rose petals. On the bed. I'm not joking with you Sticks. Do it.
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i don't ever want to be with a girl who would like that. imagine telling the boys that one, the abuse you'd get
 
End thread, bitch turned out to be teh gold digga, but still lots of awesome info here for the next one... line em up.
 
nickycakes said:
wrong. most girls, other than being shy about it sometimes, love when you ask them what they like. definitely doesn't take the fun out of anything.
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Yeah. Plus you get them thinking about sex and getting horny while being around / looking at you. 'Nuff said.
 
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