I'm tired of women who flip the fuck out any time a guy says or does anything nice for them. It's like they expect every male to jump out and rape them or something.
I've actually been saying this for years,
The only difference between friendly and creepy is attractiveness.
I discovered it during a random conversation in college and its absolutely true. I was hanging out with some female friends of mine but not really in their conversation. They were talking about this other friend of ours, how creepy he was and all the creepy things he does that freaks them out. Suddenly i realized every single thing they complained about him doing that was creepy, I DO! In fact if anything I was way more creepy than he is. So I called the group of girls out on it and asked if I was creepy to, and their only response was "Nah you're Eli, its okay."
This was a guy who was in the same friend circle for the same amount of time. We hung out all the time. He's just one ugly dude. Basically these chicks were telling me that it wasn't creepy at all when I do weird stuff. But somehow when he does the same exact thing its all super weird and creeper style. It turned into a long discussion and thats when I discovered and they admitted that it was purely a looks thing and had nothing to do with the actual actions.
When good looking people act friendly, they're nice people.
When ugly people act friendly, they're being creepy.
Still to this day whenever i see someone being weird and creepy i ask myself if it would be different if it was a super hot person doing it.
One of the reasons this kind of thing in the OP bothers me is that guys are less likely to be respectful and hold doors and do things of that nature to other women who are normal. It's kind of like that scene in Crash where Ludacris's character is complaining about waitresses giving black people bad service because of the stereotype that black people don't tip, but he perpetuates it by not tipping anyway.Walk a mile in her shoes.
Or
Come back when you have a vagina.
Women have the weirdest ideas of who is good looking versus creepy. You can be a '3' to one chick and a '8' to another, whereas guys have a pretty uniform idea of who is good looking and who isn't.
Women have the weirdest ideas of who is good looking versus creepy. You can be a '3' to one chick and a '8' to another, whereas guys have a pretty uniform idea of who is good looking and who isn't.
I've actually been saying this for years,
The only difference between friendly and creepy is attractiveness.
I discovered it during a random conversation in college and its absolutely true. I was hanging out with some female friends of mine but not really in their conversation. They were talking about this other friend of ours, how creepy he was and all the creepy things he does that freaks them out. Suddenly i realized every single thing they complained about him doing that was creepy, I DO! In fact if anything I was way more creepy than he is. So I called the group of girls out on it and asked if I was creepy to, and their only response was "Nah you're Eli, its okay."
This was a guy who was in the same friend circle for the same amount of time. We hung out all the time. He's just one ugly dude. Basically these chicks were telling me that it wasn't creepy at all when I do weird stuff. But somehow when he does the same exact thing its all super weird and creeper style. It turned into a long discussion and thats when I discovered and they admitted that it was purely a looks thing and had nothing to do with the actual actions.
When good looking people act friendly, they're nice people.
When ugly people act friendly, they're being creepy.
Still to this day whenever i see someone being weird and creepy i ask myself if it would be different if it was a super hot person doing it.
Walk a mile in her shoes.
Or
Come back when you have a vagina.