A Perfect Husband?

I am married when I am 21 too and now I am 25.

Perhaps you should give attention more into your wife since you are just married. It is ordinary for early couple that their wives should be like that. Part of the honeymoon process.

Better give her a nice play and she might change. Good Luck!
 


I am married when I am 21 too and now I am 25.

Perhaps you should give attention more into your wife since you are just married. It is ordinary for early couple that their wives should be like that. Part of the honeymoon process.

Better give her a nice play and she might change. Good Luck!

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you shouldn't have extended the chain so much... now that she can walk out of the kitchen it is causing you more shit than it was worth.
 
Last July 30, 2011 was my wedding :liebe028: and yet I'm still young 21 years old guy. My wife asked me not to drink anymore, smoke :pimp: and hangout with my friends often . I just wondering if anyone here was also in the same place with me.

How would you react?:love-smiley-005:

haha fucking dumbass
 
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Just tell her: Thanks for asking, it means you care about my health. But I'am not ready just yet.
As for the other guys in this thread, their wife's probably fucking the milk man so they can't help you much.
 
Last July 30, 2011 was my wedding :liebe028: and yet I'm still young 21 years old guy. My wife asked me not to drink anymore, smoke :pimp: and hangout with my friends often . I just wondering if anyone here was also in the same place with me.

How would you react?:love-smiley-005:

you might as well just have your dick chopped off. I'm 22 years old and even if I had a husband/boyfriend/sex toy I'd never ask him to do that.
 
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On a serious Note..

What do you mean by, "On a serious note"?
 
Last July 30, 2011 was my wedding :liebe028: and yet I'm still young 21 years old guy. My wife asked me not to drink anymore, smoke :pimp: and hangout with my friends often . I just wondering if anyone here was also in the same place with me.

How would you react?:love-smiley-005:


You should honestly tell her how what she's doing makes YOU feel. Don't be combative with her and don't start screaming at her, but actually try and express to her how she's making you feel controlled and why that feeling isn't good.

Yay for therapy.
 
Sounds like you're screwed this time around...unfortunately I doubt your wife will give in to her requests mainly because she has you right where she wants you...married!

A lot of her feelings are coming from being insecure with herself and it's not surprising at such a young age. Damn, you guys are way too young to be married and even if you make it another 5 - 7 years by the time you hit your late 20's you will both be wondering why the fuck you are married to each other as the changes that occur during your 20's are quite dramatic in my opinion.

I would seriously be wary at this point of her getting pregnant if you're having any 2nd thoughts as the last thing you need is to get tied down to someone more controlling then you would like and drag some poor innocent children into the mix.

Good luck on your 2nd marriage and make sure to discuss this stuff in advance of spending a month's salary on a ring.
 
OP, aren't you in Philippines? I thought your women are submissive and kitchen-bound. What the hell is going on there? They be watching too many hollywood movies?
 
Talk to her dude, you need to talk it out and let her understand that you don't have to change anything on each other. Cause that's who you are and she accepted to marry you for what you are.
 
Don't listen to these clowns. I have been married for fifteen years now and can give you wise counsel.

But first, most important question of all:

How is she in the sack?

How you answer that question dictates your future course of action.
 
Don't know what to say to you dude. I've been married for thirteen years this year, and my wife has never tried to change who I am, who my friends are, or how I go about most things.

The changes that have come about in me have had more to do with being a father rather than her wish for me to change anything.

The person you should be having this conversation with, if you are unhappy, is with your wife...not the members of WF (no offence guys).

Good luck bro. :)

Wondorful comment learningcurve .. I like it !!
 
Everyone here needs to understand this guy is from the Philippines, A place where the men are spineless and the women are literally begging for a REAL MAN to enter there lives.

First girl I slept with there told me she "Loved Me" after knowing her for a whole 24 hours, I then proceeded to tell her to get the fuck out // turns out that was the wrong thing to do, because it went from a stage 2 to a stage 5 clinger.

Had to change hotels while she was at work.