A Perfect Husband?

Thank you bro for your advice. . It knock my brain a lot. I'll try to absorb it.

Kyle, that I call classic woman trap. She will test you always to find how many she can control you. I am in relationship 11 years and in marriage 2,5 years. You can't be soft in these things, but direct fight is not answer. You could say that you know that alcohol and smoking are not good for health and you'll try to quit with time - when you decide, not her. But, never loose friends because she said so. That will give her more control in your life and that is the last thing what you need in life, trust me.

Whole point of relationship and marriage is to keep the balance. You must stay yours and love your woman exactly as she is. When she accept this it will be much easier in your marriage. You must work on this, but she will constantly try to control your life, that is in every woman's nature.
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I've been with my BF for 6 years and I don't tell him who He can hangout with or what to do...I'm not his mom lol
 
Just want to share about marrying early.

For me, age doesn't matter in marriage. As long as the couple are in mature state and knows what they are doing. If you married early, you will have children early too. As your child grows, he/she will just be your friend. Just some years in gap. You can send him to his education while you are young and finished his degree at your young age too.

You can have your early retirement by then. But if you married at an old age, there is a possibility that you still be working at an old age just to sustain the schooling of your children. You will not enjoy your retirement by then.
 
Kyle4hire said:
Last July 30, 2011 was my wedding :liebe028: and yet I'm still young 21 years old guy. My wife asked me not to drink anymore, smoke :pimp: and hangout with my friends often . I just wondering if anyone here was also in the same place with me.

How would you react?:love-smiley-005:
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Just your wife always want all best things for u. Good wife. Do u think so?:jester::jester:
 
Kyle4hire said:
Last July 30, 2011 was my wedding :liebe028: and yet I'm still young 21 years old guy. My wife asked me not to drink anymore, smoke :pimp: and hangout with my friends often . I just wondering if anyone here was also in the same place with me.

How would you react?:love-smiley-005:
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Kyle4hire you just need to tell your wife to go with you :) coz i think she get jealous
 
My 25th anniversary is in about a week.. I can honestly say that the only reason I'm still alive is her.. Rough patches from time to time.. But well worth the hassle of putting up with crap from single guys.. At least I don't have to go out to get rejected.. I can just hang out here..

Oh, and so I fit in, this..

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blogspotter said:
On a serious Note.. Let her know early in your marriage that you should not try to change each other.
Also, once you give in, you will always give in.... Don't try to dictate each other's lives. maker her understand that. Give yourself enough spaces. And "make love" everyday.
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Noted! Because i am also going to be married by november this year.. :D
 
your wife doesnt love u for who u are!

i think ur wife is like the old days..i don't know if this good or bad..but its good to be honest if what u are no matter what who u are if ur wife loves u she will do accept who u are as long as u provide the needs of the family..i think it is all the matter of acceptance..u know dude love ain't enough its all bout the communication and u do understand each other..I do salute u coz ur honest..dont worry if she doesn't accept u for who u are there will be not now but maybe someone will come..:action-smiley-052: btw its from my moms advice i just type it..
 
so ur filipino...hmmm..im filipino too..este filipina..wag kang mag alala marami naman dyan..its not the end of the world..like my mom and dad they split up coz my dad was smoker..coz of that reason they split up..they dont love each other..my mom and dad told me that..lol..
 
Kyle4hire said:
Last July 30, 2011 was my wedding :liebe028: and yet I'm still young 21 years old guy. My wife asked me not to drink anymore, smoke :pimp: and hangout with my friends often . I just wondering if anyone here was also in the same place with me.

How would you react?:love-smiley-005:
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Run away before you will have kids with her or she rapes you using her fist.

Back in 2009 when I joined WF new members were constantly abused, female members sexually harassed and 44% were supporting slavery. Nowadays we get one after another thread from a series of "wife beats me up, what to do", what are new members made of?
 
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