never worked a "real job" a day in my life, started IM junior year of college. anyone just outta college should live with their parents for a couple years if possible while working on their own business because you barely have any personal expenses. get your shit going and then get your own place later
i didnt read the entire thread so dont know how old you are but if you have a big enough nest egg to last a year or so, just quit and do your own thing. you're only making 60k at your job anyway so who cares. that's barely even enough to live on, i'd never be happy with that. might as well take a risk and shoot for something better