Please make a list. Different people see different problems and so far there was an easy answer to all of them. So go ahead and list the problems that you see with anarchy.
Well I wont be able to do the conversation justice because I'm not going to be fully committed to it and I have other things to do. I'm thinking we could both write books of text arguing back and forth. But here's a few quickies.
Security Firm Problems
1) If you need to hire a security firm to protect you and settle disputes, then are those who are old, poor, and without family or friends doomed to be trampled upon because they can't pay up? Those people would not be free. There are more of those type of people than you'd think. Their 'rights' would constantly be trampled on.
2) There's little question that security firms would eventually consolidate into larger firms. Power always seeks more power and it's consolidation. Eventually there would only be 1 or 2 most powerful firms that could raise prices, and wield the most power. What's the difference between living under that kind of firm and a government? How would you stop monopolies, especially security firm monopolies?
3) What if the largest security firm decides to get into human traffic, slavery, etc? What if they decide to tell people what they can and can not do.. to rule you. Over the years they've built enough wealth and weapons to easily defeat masses of people wielding simple guns and machine guns. They have sucked the people dry of their money by demanding higher and higher security costs.. kind of like a tax. And now, surprise, they use that money against you. They have stealth fighters and bombers, the peasants have rag-tag prop planes. They have mini-nukes, you have home-made machine guns. They have biological and chemical weapons, you have some chemicals from the local private school's chemistry lab.
Anarchy Sustainability Problems
1) Sustainability - The larger issue here is that anarchy is likely completely unsustainable. It is naturally weaker than others forms of government and power. Volunteerism is always weaker.. you need no more proof of that then the fact that anarchist societies don't exist right now.. they have been weeded out and destroyed by more powerful systems. A book could be filled with real scenarios of how when there is a power vacuum, someone will step in to fill it. So how would you sustain anarchy?
2) Domestic Threats - If you're under the control of a local gang because you don't have the money or resources to fight them, then you're not free and you're not experiencing Anarchy - you're experiencing Despotism. There are thousands of realistic scenarios like this that would crop up in a matter of weeks of a declared 'anarchy' region. A short list of constant domestic threats to your state of anarchy: local gangs, large families, clans, security firms, super-sized security firms, large businesses, religious cults, famous military generals seizing power, anyone with more money resources and friends than you, etc. Anarchy is likely just an impossibility based on sustainability alone. How would anarchy deal with all of these domestic threats?
3) Foreign Threats - As I said above, an anarchy region will always be less powerful than a modern state. I've run out of steam to keep writing so I'll keep this short. But if I'm wrong, then its up to modern day anarchists to prove me wrong by forming an anarchy that will stand up to foreign threats. I've only got historical and modern day evidence to support my claim. The fact that there are no true anarchist societies right now should tell you everything right there. How would you deal with all of the foreign threats?
4) Constant Battle (Terrible Quality of Life) - If you trust someone else to do your fighting for you, then you have given that entity power by funding it, etc. That entity then becomes a larger threat to the anarchy itself. This is also the case when you declare generals. By definition a general has power to give orders and commands to other people (thereby reducing your freedom).. and I'd like to see you defend your anarchy from foreign invaders w/out leaders/generals. If you did fight all regional and local battles yourself then it would likely be a constant battle. You'd have a terrible quality of life. How can you sell anarchy, when it's likely to decrease the quality of life.
Lastly
Personally, my life is pretty peaceful and easy right now. If we are slaves to an out of control government, then we slaves are living better than Lords and Kings did centuries ago. I came from a poor family but now I work maybe 30 days a year and make low six figures. 30 days a year! I don't feel like a slave. If I'm a slave then I definitely have it much better than any slave in history. I'm trying to say that my quality of life under this system is likely much better than in an anarchy where I'd likely have to fight local and foreign offenders every day to maintain it. Most of us feel the same. Few of us would want to lose our life in support of an impossibility like Anarchy.
So I'll end this by saying that I suppose it's easier for you modern day Anarchists to just believe that the world is full of dumb people keeping you down. But if anarchy was worth a damn shouldn't it be able to withstand some dumb people in and out of it's region? Dumb people will always exist. Hopefully anarchy can withstand dumb people.
It's also easier to believe that you can't have your dream of anarchy because people are lazy cowards, and love to be led, they love being submissive. They are keeping you down. But shouldn't an anarchy that's worth a damn be able to survive through a storm of lazy submissive cowards? If not, then is anarchy sustainable and worth a damn? There will always be lazy, submissive cowards.
If any anarchy is to survive it sounds like it's going to be a constant struggle for it's people to maintain it. So why aren't wanna-be anarchists doing that right now? You could start a small anarchy right now. Start the struggle! Go out and do it. See how long it stands up against the internal and external threats I've mentioned. Are you waiting for a certain amount of people to back you up? Then I guess your anarchy has another flaw.. which is a minimum amount of people that must constantly support it. What is that number?
Wannabe anarchists are just as pathetic as the rest of us until they quit whining about others keeping them down and get out there themselves, declare an anarchy and start their inevitable struggle against foreign and domestic threats. Or are you waiting for modern governments to relinquish their power and hand you your freedom/anarchy in a gift-wrapped box?