Rings are fucking expensive

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I spent $12,000 for a very high quality 1.5 ct solitaire. I visited a number of mom and pop shops, wholesalers and retailers before making my decision. I still feel confident that I got the best deal.

Make sure you get it certified so you can a.) have it insured and b.) trade-up in the future if necessary.
 
I spent $12,000 for a very high quality 1.5 ct solitaire. I visited a number of mom and pop shops, wholesalers and retailers before making my decision. I still feel confident that I got the best deal.

Make sure you get it certified so you can a.) have it insured and b.) trade-up in the future if necessary.
12K? FUCK!
My 10th anniversary is coming up next August and she wants a 2 ct solitaire.
I got lucky on the engagement ring though, She wanted a colada with an emerald so I got out of that one for only about a grand.

Guess I haven't paid enough over the last 10 years, Time to settle up. ;)

bluenile.com used to be the "Hot" diamond site, don't know if they still are but they're pricey.
 
Hey engaged/married/divorced guys: How much did you pay for and where did you get your engagement ring? Can you remember the 4 Cs of that particular ring? I'm clueless here.

I paid $3K for her engagement ring. 1Ct.

Fuck the C's, it's the size that matters. If you can afford a $1K 1Ct or a $2K 4Ct, get her the biggest one you can afford that's not yellow. In the end, she'll care about the size above all else.
 
Fuck the C's, it's the size that matters.

That is so not true. A large stone may have inclusions like black spots, cloudiness, cracks. My grandmother had a big, cloudy stone in a dingy color that wasn't worth much.

Don't let them sell you anything lower in quality than I1, which is the highest grade with inclusions (I). It will look fine to the eye, but using a loupe, a jeweler can tell the stone is low grade.

The "S" grade is a far better choice (Some inclusions), and color is important. The whiter the stone, the higher the price, although I personally like champagne diamonds and grayer stones more than white-white.

You could even buy a beautiful setting, and get a stone from eBay, then have it set. Don't be afraid to learn about this, and be aware that jewelers prey on your ignorance.
 
Oh...make sure you buy something that is at least an SI2, SI1, VS2, or VS1. Anything else is low quality and you will see the inclusions. On the color stay within a color D-J. Here is a chart:

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Let me tell you from the heart. I have been married for 8 years. I absolutely love my wife. I adore her. She is my best friend. I would not trade her for any other woman in the world. I wish I was not married. Think about it.

Wha?

@everyone else. I believe the op was asking advise on rings, not marriage. Although I'm sure if he needed marital advice wf would be the first place he should come to.
 
Let me tell you from the heart. I have been married for 8 years. I absolutely love my wife. I adore her. She is my best friend. I would not trade her for any other woman in the world. I wish I was not married. Think about it.

Wha?

@the others. I believe the op was asking advise on rings, not marriage. Although I'm sure if he needed marital advice wf would be the first place he should come to.
 
they have some pretty nice rings in some of those crane machines you know, and if you get lucky it'll only cost $.25.
 
That is so not true. A large stone may have inclusions like black spots, cloudiness, cracks. My grandmother had a big, cloudy stone in a dingy color that wasn't worth much.

Don't let them sell you anything lower in quality than I1, which is the highest grade with inclusions (I). It will look fine to the eye, but using a loupe, a jeweler can tell the stone is low grade.

The "S" grade is a far better choice (Some inclusions), and color is important. The whiter the stone, the higher the price, although I personally like champagne diamonds and grayer stones more than white-white.

You could even buy a beautiful setting, and get a stone from eBay, then have it set. Don't be afraid to learn about this, and be aware that jewelers prey on your ignorance.


Just watch a few hens mush over their rings sometime. The one with the 1/4 crystal clear perfect cut diamond isn't the one the others gush over, it's the gal with the 1 carat (or larger) ring they gawk at.

60 seconds after they get the ring they don't give a shit about the C's, they only care about the fact that they 'have' a ring and can show it off. None of the other girls care if it's a S1 or S2 or what shade it is.
 
It's all a fucking scam.

Any girl who insists on a certain ring isn't worth it.

"Bitch betta luv ya for who you is, not what you makes."
 
buy the ring in cash, saves the tax, and it saves the person youre buying it from taxes as well, you can negotiate with cash.

i bought my wife's ring with cash in the diamond district in NYC, i probably would have paid twice what i paid if i didnt come with cash
 
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