How often do you guys go clubbing?

Good lord, paying 2.5K to sit at a table, can you say 'sucker'? I wouldn't pay that much if I were a billionaire. It's similar to paying $500 for a special pizza, yeah sure it sounds cool, but in the end it's just a meal.

I don't go out clubbing in my own city anymore, because after 10 years of going out, I've seen it all and it frankly depresses me to see all the drunk retards puking in the streets. So, clubbing for me these days only happens abroad in London, Stockholm, Bangkok, wherever I happen to be.
 


Definitely not as much as I used to. It gets old. I prefer low-key bars where I can actually talk to people and hear what they have to say.

I feel the need to go to clubbing only when I'm traveling. The best clubbing scene in the world is in Asia, for obvious reasons (lots of chicks, cheap drinks, cheap taxis, good food, good DJs, etc...)

Clubbing in North America sucks as (1) it's overpriced (2) chicks act like a million dollar (3) crazy lineups unless you're willing to grease the bouncers (4) It always ends up in fights

Seriously if I was in the U.S. I'd have to get the best possible health insurance package before I hit a club. I have a friend that got jumped by 3 guys because he talked to a girl that happened to be one of the guy's girlfriends (he obviously didn't know that)... and ended up in the hospital with a $10k bill. Can you imagine? You go out for fun and end up with broken teeth and ribs and a $10k bill? No thanks. I'll drink at home and play Starcraft 2.
 
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Yes, clubbing in the west is very overrated except for those who own the clubs.
 
axxomarketing said:
It's social circle game. The core of this group is three to four guys including me. We bring in guys and girls from our social circle and party together. We hope to find decent girls to bang and perhaps to get one as a girlfriend. But till now we have found none, since its pretty hard to find a good looking girl here in Singapore. The best looking girl in our social circle is from another country. My and my friends have tried to get into her pants, but so far we failed. And the rest of the girls are not even worth banging. I guess it's time to ditch this group.
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Yeah, most of my friends are late 20's and early 30's, they love clubbing. They spend a tons in club and not getting laid, every girls they try to pull went on to fuck other guys instead. And for that reason I've ditched them, and only catch up to have lunch if they manage to get up from bed on weekend. I'd prefer bar where I could chill and talk to girls without the loud music.
 
axxomarketing said:
It's social circle game. The core of this group is three to four guys including me. We bring in guys and girls from our social circle and party together. We hope to find decent girls to bang and perhaps to get one as a girlfriend. But till now we have found none, since its pretty hard to find a good looking girl here in Singapore. The best looking girl in our social circle is from another country. My and my friends have tried to get into her pants, but so far we failed. And the rest of the girls are not even worth banging. I guess it's time to ditch this group.
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hehejo said:
Ouch...

You got this all wrong.

If you get bottle service, the girls see you as a provider and will go fuck other guys while they drink on your tab. There are exceptions of course, but you don't seem to be one.

To get laid while clubbing you have to go out with 1-3 friends and go talk to girls. Don't just talk to your social circle. Also if you want to be more productive don't drink when you go out. It is perfectly fine to socialize without getting wasted.

Personally I prefer to do a few months of being really productive with no alcohol and then go all out on a short holiday to get it out of my system again for a while.

But please stop buying girls alcohol trying to get in their pants. Might as well just buy a hooker.
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Sounds about right.

If you want the girl in your social circle, you have to get her indirectly.
Basically, you need to bring in random girls that will be all over you guys bc you have the bottles and they want the new-found attention. They have to be attractive enough to pose a threat.

Once you get the game started you play both sides. If you really want to make it interesting, you show all of them attention and then go get another group of girls and repeat. It's all a numbers game. Plus, if your girl doesn't bite, you have new groups of girls to pick from.

I went to Atlanta recently with some friends that appear to be in the exact situation as you and that is how they did it.
Even the uglier guys in the group would run through girls. Bringing in the new threats would make all the females drop their standards.
 
OP suffers from lack of validation from everyone in his life. Goes to WF to find it.
 
I went clubbing every weekend when I lived in FL. Haven't gone to a club since July. It does get repetitive that's why you switch areas each time since it will be different experience and people.
 
blureach said:
Sounds about right.

If you want the girl in your social circle, you have to get her indirectly.
Basically, you need to bring in random girls that will be all over you guys bc you have the bottles and they want the new-found attention. They have to be attractive enough to pose a threat.

Once you get the game started you play both sides. If you really want to make it interesting, you show all of them attention and then go get another group of girls and repeat. It's all a numbers game. Plus, if your girl doesn't bite, you have new groups of girls to pick from.

I went to Atlanta recently with some friends that appear to be in the exact situation as you and that is how they did it.
Even the uglier guys in the group would run through girls. Bringing in the new threats would make all the females drop their standards.
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Put like that, women seem like shallow creatures wouldn't you say? They are basically just attracted because they believe someone else is attracted.

I think this works better to get attention, but for a long term relationship you wouldn't want social proof to be your main attractive quality.
 
Wicked Ice said:
Hahaha....these guys are not getting laid at all.
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Maybe or maybe not. But they are monetizing the niche very well. They realized youtube is a good source but the money isn't great. Building a list, having a monthly subscription service, and "bootcamps". Whether they are getting laid or not, my hats off to them.
 
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ItsYoBuddy said:
Maybe or maybe not. But they are monetizing the niche very well. They realized youtube is a good source but the money isn't great. Building a list, having a monthly subscription service, and "bootcamps". Whether they are getting laid or not, my hats off to them.
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Their sales funnel is awesome. (Although they don't use their email list enough). As to the initial point, there are enough videos of them getting girls numbers, getting makeouts, getting girls in their car (that sounds rapey, doesn't it?) both on youtube and in their subscription area for me to believe they get laid.
 
I stopped clubbing when I was 22.

There are a lot of things I want to do rather than work.

Going to bars and getting wasted chasing skirt isn't one of them.
 
I was married and living in a crappy club town from 20-28. Now I'm living in a different country with a different girl and we go out every week or two, hit a few bars, have dinner, then bounce around our local club district. The places have no cover, if there's bottle service no one is getting it, we just go to people watch and meet the occasional expat. We don't usually get wasted, so there's no lost productivity the next day. It's something to do, but I wouldn't be upset if we didn't go out either.
 
Where do you live now?

pdxdvr said:
I was married and living in a crappy club town from 20-28. Now I'm living in a different country with a different girl and we go out every week or two, hit a few bars, have dinner, then bounce around our local club district. The places have no cover, if there's bottle service no one is getting it, we just go to people watch and meet the occasional expat. We don't usually get wasted, so there's no lost productivity the next day. It's something to do, but I wouldn't be upset if we didn't go out either.
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me and my friends do clubbing very rare as they cost alot.......we prefer gathering at friends house
 
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