Not sure if you have children, especially little girls.. but I am very keen what "men" are around mine for any length of time and never unsupervised, coach or not.
You can not avoid risk at all costs, but everyone has a different level of tolerance. If me and my family are in a car, thats tolerant for me. Same with if we are all together in Mexico. However, I am not tolerant of letting my children go to Mexico without me ( their not even 10 yet ) and for sure not riding in a car with someone other then me or my wife or my parents.
I also dont let them spend the night at little Susie's house, cause little Susie lives in the ghetto and there are frequent shootings, robberies, and assaults there. However, I'm more tolerant of them spending the night at Mary's house cause Mary lives right the street to me. It is what it is. Id rather not find myself in a situation if I can avoid it and thats what I do.
Some of you have a different tolerance level then me when it comes to risks and thats your thing.