ooooooh, someone hit a nerve with thraxed?!
Well, just replying in a friendly way, as I have decided that I have wasted enough thime in this thread, but I don't live in fear at all. I think alot of people feel religion is living in fear, but I fear the same thing anyone else does, dying. Even though I believe there is an afterlife, I am in no hurry to get there. Maybe I am being selfish, but I have kids I would love to see grow and I have alot of living left to do myself.
I think the reason alot of people think people who go to church have to live in fear is from bad churches! The sad truth is that there are alot of bad churches that have given religion a bad name, and across all denominations. I go to a non-denominational church, so maybe thats why I feel this way. I wear jeans to church, we have modern music and I have alot of friends there.
I don't share alot of the same views as most "Christians". I think pot should be legalized, but I don't smoke pot, anymore. I have an occasional drink, smoke alot of expensive cigars and I still like to check out the ladies... even some of the ones at church, but I am married, so I only look!
Either way, it's not my place to try to convince anyone to believe in God. I can only offer it and/or answer questions, but at the end of the day it's always a personal choice. So, I hope no one here felt I was trying to push Jesus on anyone, as I am only here discussing the subject. I didn't come here to make enemies and maybe I can learn something from some of you.