Relationship troubles with a female VA

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Hi gay webmasters. Of everyone I know, I believe you would know how to fix this problem.

I hired a female VA to do some writing for me. Unlike other VAs I've hired, she would actually chated me up on skype and ask about my day and how I was doing and other socially acceptable stuff. I also hired her to write about "coneing" and, from that, we had a talk about sex and stuff.

Anyways, I didn't really think much of that but, now, I sent her about $300 worth of work and she has yet replied back to me. It has been 2 weeks and her status on Skype is "its complicated" WTF did I do something? She wouldn't even reply to my messages on oDesk.
 


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You actually have the upper hand here. Here's why.

She hasn't responded yet, she's confused, her feelings are becoming real...

She's starting to fall in love with you and needs a little time/distance to make sure this makes the most sense for both her personal future and her career.

You need to strike first and fast if you want to get back on track, business wise... This is also when she'll most likely be the most vulnerable.

Unfortunately, now is the time to let her know, you're a strong independent gay webmaster who don't need no woman.
 
Incoming true story:

Hired a woman from a few states over to do some writing for a site of mine. She would talk to me a lot on Skype and we ended up texting. She's pretty much in love with me, and she's not bad looking, but she's fucking crazy. And married with kids. Also, she never met deadlines and sometimes just blew me off the work I gave for her to do completely.
 
I've lurked this forum for a long time before signing up, and only one guy has set off my "wtf" spidey sense over and over, consistently. I know I'm not the only one who sees it, as evidenced by a previous post you made. Everything you type oozes with sleaze and vile intentions. You should probably stop dedicating your life to the pursuit of manipulating women. I've prepared this image so hopefully you'll realize the path you're headed down before you end up in jail for assaulting some random female. I'll also attach the Fiverr video you had made to assist you in your predatory attempts.

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Ladies, watch out for Sir Captain Admiral:

[ame=http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bAuRSsEubg0]sir captain admiral - YouTube[/ame]
 
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Hi gay webmasters. Of everyone I know, I believe you would know how to fix this problem.

I hired a female VA to do some writing for me. Unlike other VAs I've hired, she would actually chated me up on skype and ask about my day and how I was doing and other socially acceptable stuff. I also hired her to write about "coneing" and, from that, we had a talk about sex and stuff.

Anyways, I didn't really think much of that but, now, I sent her about $300 worth of work and she has yet replied back to me. It has been 2 weeks and her status on Skype is "its complicated" WTF did I do something? She wouldn't even reply to my messages on oDesk.

tldr.

However judging by the thread title and most of the 3rd paragraph (you know - the point where basically, I lost interest ;)) she took advantage of the fact you have a penis. Some gals'll do this... nothing to see here, move along.
 
OP don't worry, your VA is probably just spending some quality time with his family and treating them to some pakora with those hard earned rupees. Good luck bros.

true , He/She didn't respond because he/she has your $300 .Don't take it the other way nothing related to relationship stuff , trying to scam ya op.
 
Everything you type oozes with sleaze and vile intentions.

So you're saying when he started chatting about "sex and stuff" with his VA, he probably came across as quite weird and creepy?

OP, quit hitting on your VAs, and describing your sexual fantasies to them. They may stop disappearing on you.
 
I've lurked this forum for a long time before signing up, and only one guy has set off my "wtf" spidey sense over and over, consistently. I know I'm not the only one who sees it, as evidenced by a previous post you made. Everything you type oozes with sleaze and vile intentions. You should probably stop dedicating your life to the pursuit of manipulating women. I've prepared this image so hopefully you'll realize the path you're headed down before you end up in jail for assaulting some random female. I'll also attach the Fiverr video you had made to assist you in your predatory attempts.

Just so you are 100% clear on this- while we appreciate your altruistic sense of social responsibility that forced you to stalk this fucking pervert, and then bring his already well-known sick and twisted behavior to our attention, I, for one, would have been perfectly OK with you continuing to lurk forever.

tl;dr: do this:

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Have Skype Sex with her, after she had an orgasm, tell her to finish her work, after she finishes her work and emails you what is needed, you can tell her, we can only be friends with Skype benefits.