Relationships, I fucking hate them..

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Fuzzo

Fuzzo

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Not meaning to sound like a pussy I just wanted to get some shit off my chest... Relationships are a fucking mess...

Dilemma in point: Am 21, and for the last three years, I have been with the same girl, whos great - but I always get committment issues and shit... its like... one minute ill be fine and the next ill be wanting to get as far away as possible - what the fuck do you do?

Break loose and enjoy the rest of your 'youth' to your full potential or stay hoping that shit will work itself out and you will stop thinking about other women haha...

Fuuuuuuck...
 


Fuzzo said:
Not meaning to sound like a pussy I just wanted to get some shit off my chest... Relationships are a fucking mess...

Dilemma in point: Am 21, and for the last three years, I have been with the same girl, whos great - but I always get committment issues and shit... its like... one minute ill be fine and the next ill be wanting to get as far away as possible - what the fuck do you do?

Break loose and enjoy the rest of your 'youth' to your full potential or stay hoping that shit will work itself out and you will stop thinking about other women haha...

Fuuuuuuck...
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21? Been with her for 3 years? the C word....

You == FUCKED. Seriously, you're both strangers to the world and now you want to lock in your bet before you've seen all the ponies?

Poor choice man, and I know something about poor choices.

You shouldn't get married until you've dated at least 10 other girls. Ask any 50 year old what they knew at 21 and they'll all tell you the same thing: Not a fucking thing.
 
Fuzzo said:
Not meaning to sound like a pussy I just wanted to get some shit off my chest... Relationships are a fucking mess...

Dilemma in point: Am 21, and for the last three years, I have been with the same girl, whos great - but I always get committment issues and shit... its like... one minute ill be fine and the next ill be wanting to get as far away as possible - what the fuck do you do?

Break loose and enjoy the rest of your 'youth' to your full potential or stay hoping that shit will work itself out and you will stop thinking about other women haha...

Fuuuuuuck...
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The grass is always greener on the other side my friend. No matter what you choose to do it will have it's pros and cons.
 
I was in your same situation when I was your age, I ended up having a kid with her and a couple years later we ended up splitting up. If you aren't happy with her now you'll never be happy. Stop wasting your time and her time.
 
bb_wolfe said:
21? Been with her for 3 years? the C word....

You == FUCKED. Seriously, you're both strangers to the world and now you want to lock in your bet before you've seen all the ponies?

Poor choice man, and I know something about poor choices.

You shouldn't get married until you've dated at least 10 other girls. Ask any 50 year old what they knew at 21 and they'll all tell you the same thing: Not a fucking thing.
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You have summed up my thoughts perfectly to be honest.. I do know fuck all, infact I have stuck inside abit of a safezone for those three years now and I really need to try other things.

I still love her and all its just, fuck and I dont know if I could see myself there in 20 years time - which tells me now is the time to cut it off.

Im going to feel like such a cunt though...
 
Fuzzo said:
You have summed up my thoughts perfectly to be honest.. I do know fuck all, infact I have stuck inside abit of a safezone for those three years now and I really need to try other things.

I still love her and all its just, fuck and I dont know if I could see myself there in 20 years time - which tells me now is the time to cut it off.

Im going to feel like such a cunt though...
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The key for most people is not to marry your girlfriend, but to marry your best [female] friend.

The guys who get divorced usually married their girlfriend, the guys who are happy at 40 are usually the ones who married the girl who he trusted the most. I've been in both situations and I can say that marrying one you can trust is more erotic in the long run than marrying the short 110lb big-titted blonde gymnast who only wants a caviar lifestyle.

Best place to find Mrs. Right: everywhere. There's nothing better than finding out a girl is exactly the opposite of what you first thought when seeing her. Ask out to coffee a girl you wouldn't normally think you have a chance with. And for fucks sake, get a good education, do something that makes bank, and SAVE SAVE SAVE. The root of most marriage problems is money and alcohol, and being poor is no way to enjoy life.
 
bb_wolfe said:
The key for most people is not to marry your girlfriend, but to marry your best [female] friend.

The guys who get divorced usually married their girlfriend, the guys who are happy at 40 are usually the ones who married the girl who he trusted the most. I've been in both situations and I can say that marrying one you can trust is more erotic in the long run than marrying the short 110lb blonde gymnast who only wants a caviar lifestyle.
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Well she is my best female friend, but im really not thinking about marriage - infact I don't think I will marry.
 
Fuzzo said:
You have summed up my thoughts perfectly to be honest.. I do know fuck all, infact I have stuck inside abit of a safezone for those three years now and I really need to try other things.

I still love her and all its just, fuck and I dont know if I could see myself there in 20 years time - which tells me now is the time to cut it off.

Im going to feel like such a cunt though...
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One final thought, make sure you remain friends with her, nothing worse than losing a good friend, if she is indeed a good friend.
 
Fuzzo said:
Well she is my best female friend, but im really not thinking about marriage - infact I don't think I will marry.
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When you're both ~25 and she's been a bridesmaid in 5-10 weddings and has attended the baby shower of about a dozen of her friends, she'll get to the point where you marry her or she's a ghost, trust me.

Good luck!
 
I have seen so many of my friends get married who said "I will never get married" it is unreal.

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Whew, I'm twenty and have been in a three year relationship. After 3 years, you kind of know whether or not you intend on spending more time with your "significant other", and if you are having doubts, just cut the string and move onto bigger and better adventures. No sense in prolonging the relationship, it'll only make matters worse. Ultimately, it's for the best if you are curious and want to test the waters. :D Good luck!
 
Janaic said:
Whew, I'm twenty and have been in a three year relationship. After 3 years, you kind of know whether or not you intend on spending more time with your "significant other", and if you are having doubts, just cut the string and move onto bigger and better adventures. No sense in prolonging the relationship, it'll only make matters worse. Ultimately, it's for the best if you are curious and want to test the waters. :D Good luck!
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Obligatory " How YOU doin? "

Seriously though, it's 100% different for a 20 year old female than for a 21 year old guy.


The girl has at least one friend who is married and one friend who has a baby, so she know's it's possible, but the guy sees the same thing and know's it's a risk. The girl wants security and certainty while the guy wants a 10 minute fuck and a beer/baseball game afterwards.

Therein lies the problem. Now, if a woman could find a great way to fuck, drink beer, and watch baseball all at the same time, 99.999% of the world's problems would be solved!

[God I hope my girl doesn't see this!]
 
bb_wolfe said:
Therein lies the problem. Now, if a woman could find a great way to fuck, drink beer, and watch baseball all at the same time, 99.999% of the world's problems would be solved!

[God I hope my girl doesn't see this!]
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Lots of women do find a way to fuck, drink beer and watch a baseball game... They are known as whores. Maybe all of these aren't accomplished at the same time, but I imagine it works something like this:

1. Girl meets guy at bar.. they share many drinks together.
2. Guy and girl fuck
etc etc
Haha. Promiscuous behavior does not make the world go round, it only infects millions of people with STDs... :D Personally, not my cup of tea. :D
 
Janaic said:
Lots of women do find a way to fuck, drink beer and watch a baseball game... They are known as whores. Maybe all of these aren't accomplished at the same time, but I imagine it works something like this:

1. Girl meets guy at bar.. they share many drinks together.
2. Guy and girl fuck
etc etc
Haha. Promiscuous behavior does not make the world go round, it only infects millions of people with STDs... :D Personally, not my cup of tea. :D
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Havn't you heard about this great new invention called a condom?
 
Sorry to hear your frustration man. Sounds like you two just haven't had a chance to get your wings yet. Who knows maybe in a year or two of dating other people you'll get it out of your system and decide to tie it down.

Janaic said:
Lots of women do find a way to fuck, drink beer and watch a baseball game... They are known as whores. Maybe all of these aren't accomplished at the same time, but I imagine it works something like this:

1. Girl meets guy at bar.. they share many drinks together.
2. Guy and girl fuck
etc etc
Haha. Promiscuous behavior does not make the world go round, it only infects millions of people with STDs... :D Personally, not my cup of tea. :D
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That's the sad tragedy. Girls talk a big game with the whole antislut thing but yet they want sex just as much as guys do. They meet a guy and get alone with him, they usually say something along the lines of I don't think we should be doing this. Then the guy will say something that alleviates her from responsibility and boom they're having sex. As long as they are sure they can't be called a slut for it they'll swing naked from the ceiling fan for all they care. Thats not the sad part. The sad part is girls are such fantastic liars and flirts that guys have no way of knowing anything about what a girl is really like until after sex. Everything up to that point is usually fake as hell and is just trying to get the guy to like them. Me? I love football and video games! The girl after sex is a totally different woman than before. The guy gets to see what she's really like and often times all the neuroticism that goes along with it. Then when he decides maybe the psycho chick isn't right for him she can go crying to her friends about how he "used her."
 
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