1)HeHejo: It seems to me you object to altruism as an ETHICAL DOCTRINE - that is, it's our DUTY to always put others before ourselves. If that's the case, I agree with you. It makes no sense that we're obligated to love others more than ourselves. I mean, if you want to do that, that's cool - but it should NEVER be an obligation. I would say that it's more practical (and reasonable) to love others
as much as we do ourselves.
2.The RedBaren: I'm glad Guerilla was able to win you over, despite never explaining how it's impossible to practice unselfish concern for the well-being of others. In other words, acting towards the benefit of others WITHOUT self-interest.
You all have stated rather elegantly how the drive to help others comes from a survival standpoint...
On a biological level all our genes care about is replicating and surviving. This also means helping similar genes (relatives) to a certain degree. To some degree it also means helping friends and your "tribe", because those genes have shown that they support your genes too so it is a symbiotic relationship and you profit from them surviving in the gene pool.
...And yet this STILL doesn't explain the soldier who throws himself over a grenade to protect his comrades. If it's all about genetic survival, where does this one come into play? It couldn't be ego-gratification considering total self-sacrifice entails complete destruction of the ego (self). There is NO ego reward if you're dead.
On a basic level, we help other people because it helps us in return. Game theory shows that individuals and groups who cooperate do better in an environment with multiple participants compared to groups who don't.
What you're describing is
collectivism. It's not the same as the empathetic model of altruism Guerrilla and I were discussing.
But broken down it comes all back to your genes who want to survive and replicate and all those things have their roots in selfish reasons.
I would argue that our base drive towards genetic propagation ISN'T necessarily selfish (as it's perpetuating the species as a whole), and if it is (for the sake of argument), it's certainly not the type of selfishness we experience when consciously weighing out the benefits of helping out another party. Egoism vs unselfish concern for others is what we're talking about here.
I think a HUGE mistake everyone's making is to assume that all human survival instincts stem from selfishness (or egoism), and that altruism is some twisted offspring of that.
It makes more sense that altruism and egoism are both their own separate instincts, and they each have played their own part in driving us forward as a species...
..Now can someone PLEASE explain how it's IMPOSSIBLE for me to act without self-interest in mind? :eek7: