Random OT Rant:
"Lucky your parents can help us with the down payment"
My first thought is: so now I'm being looked down upon because my parents take care of family? Shit, you all do realize that that shit is confused all the time? You have X because you're white! No, I have X because my parents raised me a certain way. You have a good job because you're white! No, I have a good "job" because I started doing work in this field at 11 years old because my parents pushed me towards it.
People confuse the whole "race benefits" thing with upbringing a little too much for my taste. It's not my fault that my parents pushed me in a certain direction, and yours didn't.
It really is quite sad because all they want to do it rid themselves of any responsibility. It is much easier to blame the color of your skin for your failures than it is to accept some personal responsibility.
The worst part of it all is that white liberals are largely responsible for that mindset. If you keep telling somebody that they can't succeed in life without help, they'll begin to believe it unless they have a really strong family that counteracts that bullshit. How ironic that the most demeaning, intellectually and emotionally crippling thing done to blacks is actually at the hands of white liberals and black organizations like NAACP, rather than actual racists.
I just gave out a lot of +rep in this thread. Sometimes, WickedFire, you guys are great.
Edit: except you BluAffiliate, that EVIL WHITE GUY stuff gets really annoying quick. We get it, you think white people are bad and that black people have it hard. Which might be true. I live in a place where I see almost no institutional or social racism, ever, with minorities in top positions all over the place, but the fact remains that the post-secondary education system discriminates based on race BEFORE merit, which is irrational and stupid. It'd be irrational and stupid whether it was discriminating against white people, black people or green people.
... it's a human problem more so than a political one, so to blame a specific political group or mindset isn't so much different than blaming an ethnic group.
The worst part of it all is that white liberals are largely responsible for that mindset. If you keep telling somebody that they can't succeed in life without help, they'll begin to believe it unless they have a really strong family that counteracts that bullshit. How ironic that the most demeaning, intellectually and emotionally crippling thing done to blacks is actually at the hands of white liberals and black organizations like NAACP, rather than actual racists.
The worst part of it all is that white liberals are largely responsible for that mindset. If you keep telling somebody that they can't succeed in life without help, they'll begin to believe it unless they have a really strong family that counteracts that bullshit. How ironic that the most demeaning, intellectually and emotionally crippling thing done to blacks is actually at the hands of white liberals and black organizations like NAACP, rather than actual racists.
The worst part of it all is that white liberals are largely responsible for that mindset. If you keep telling somebody that they can't succeed in life without help, they'll begin to believe it unless they have a really strong family that counteracts that bullshit. How ironic that the most demeaning, intellectually and emotionally crippling thing done to blacks is actually at the hands of white liberals and black organizations like NAACP, rather than actual racists.
I could sit around getting mad out how the "boys don't let me play" or I can roll up my sleeves (stockings in this case) and work harder, faster and better.
Huh? Do you have any idea what you're talking about? The fact that you get so pissed is because of your priviledge...
Women (me) and minorities get discriminated against all the time. It's a fact of life. I'm a woman in a largely male (and often sexist) tech field. I could sit around getting mad out how the "boys don't let me play" or I can roll up my sleeves (stockings in this case) and work harder, faster and better.
Did I sit around writing blog posts about how unfair it is on the NATIONAL ASSOCIATION OF WOMEN'S WEBSITE or get even more series about sales funnel automation processes, copywriting, recruiting affiliates and outsourcing overseas?
The problem that alot of women and minorities have when people start complaining about how "awful" reverse descrimination is that EVERYONE FUCKING GETS DISCRIMINATED AGAINST.
Does it make it right? No....
Is it fair? No...
Move fucking on. If you've got a enough money in the bank you don't to worry about any discrimination.
I got burned out a few years ago and left a plush job in CT to teach in the inner city Bronx. It only lasted for 2 months because it was a war zone and I just couldn't take it.
Point is I told those kids not to get mad about discrimination but to get rich.
So my point is that if you are really into preaching empowerment then stop going on about liberals and what discrimination you face and get rich.
And for the record if you check the annual lists of billionaires there are less than 5 self-made women billionaires and fewer blacks there as well...
Do I sit around and whine about how "unfair" it is or get more determined? The latter....
On that note, I'm back to bed and week 6 of my retirement....
Shut up and go make me a sammich.
Huh? Do you have any idea what you're talking about? The fact that you get so pissed is because of your priviledge...
Women (me) and minorities get discriminated against all the time. It's a fact of life. I'm a woman in a largely male (and often sexist) tech field. I could sit around getting mad out how the "boys don't let me play" or I can roll up my sleeves (stockings in this case) and work harder, faster and better. Did I sit around writing blog posts about how unfair it is on the NATIONAL ASSOCIATION OF WOMEN'S WEBSITE or get even more series about sales funnel automation processes, copywriting, recruiting affiliates and outsourcing overseas? The problem that alot of women and minorities have when people start complaining about how "awful" reverse descrimination is that EVERYONE FUCKING GETS DISCRIMINATED AGAINST.
Does it make it right? No.... Is it fair? No... Move fucking on. If you've got a enough money in the bank you don't to worry about any discrimination. I got burned out a few years ago and left a plush job in CT to teach in the inner city Bronx. It only lasted for 2 months because it was a war zone and I just couldn't take it. Point is I told those kids not to get mad about discrimination but to get rich. So my point is that if you are really into preaching empowerment then stop going on about liberals and what discrimination you face and get rich. And for the record if you check the annual lists of billionaires there are less than 5 self-made women billionaires and fewer blacks there as well...Do I sit around and whine about how "unfair" it is or get more determined? The latter....On that note, I'm back to bed and week 6 of my retirement....
People are still falling for this white guilt bullshit?
I just gave out a lot of +rep in this thread. Sometimes, WickedFire, you guys are great.
Edit: except you BluAffiliate, that EVIL WHITE GUY stuff gets really annoying quick. We get it, you think white people are bad and that black people have it hard. Which might be true. I live in a place where I see almost no institutional or social racism, ever, with minorities in top positions all over the place, but the fact remains that the post-secondary education system discriminates based on race BEFORE merit, which is irrational and stupid. It'd be irrational and stupid whether it was discriminating against white people, black people or green people.
The worst part of it all is that white liberals are largely responsible for that mindset. If you keep telling somebody that they can't succeed in life without help, they'll begin to believe it unless they have a really strong family that counteracts that bullshit. How ironic that the most demeaning, intellectually and emotionally crippling thing done to blacks is actually at the hands of white liberals and black organizations like NAACP, rather than actual racists.
This. +Move fucking on. If you've got a enough money in the bank you don't to worry about any discrimination.
best response on WF today. and honestly I read her post and saw nothing that countered any of your points.