worth trying to get back with an ex?

I assume you haven't made contact with her in those three years. People change, and 3 yrs is a fucking lot of time. Give her a call, ask her out. For lunch or something. Reasonable people do this, there's nothing awkward or inappropriate about it.

Make sure you don't sound too serious, nor desperate. Just a casual "ey gal, how's it hangin'? Long time no see, let's meet up and catch up on shit". Nothing fancy. Don't ask her out for dinner, don't buy her flowers, etc. See how she's acting, try to see if she's changed.

If you two don't meet up, you'll feel those doubts about "half of you wanting" shit forever.
 


If she is really hot then she her dating site account is getting fill hard dicks by the 1000's p.m's .. You probably should wright her off and grab some ky and toss a couple off to her memory while it is still fresh..
 
over 3 billion bitches on the planet and you're trying to get back with 1 crazy jealous chick that prolly whored around after your breakup. GL BRA
 
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ricdes said:
over 3 billion bitches on the planet and you're trying to get back with 1 crazy jealous chick that prolly whored around after your breakup. GL BRA
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^^ This, Girls have a tendancy to whore out after a break up it makes them feel better or something stupid like that but if you don't mind that or some of the other numerous reasons given to you in this thread not to do it then go for it!
 
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jerk off than think about the issue afterwards
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Hahaha so true dude.

This is pretty much the primary way of me finding out if I like a chick or simply lust her. I jerk off while thinking about her / watching a porno that looks like her, and if I still want to hang out with her after I've whacked it, then she's a keeper.

95% of the time, I could care less and want to get back to doing whatever I was doing before I got horny.

== Booty call
 
Mistake 1: Asking for advice on this forum about dating/chiclets.

If it was me, I would probably call her directly and ask her out. 3 Years is a long time and she might still retain the qualities I enjoyed and have grown out of the drama, if nothing else you will probably hook up and it will be all good.

With regards to who she has hooked up with like some of you fuck sticks pointed out... Who cares? That in itself is a form of jealousy.

Bottom line, just go see if you have a good time. You never know, she might turn your ass down because you broke her heart. ;-)
 
@op - your first fuck up was hitting her up to chat or "let her know whats new".

You are no longer a challenge to her, and now probably thinks that you're desperate as well.

hopefully knowing this will help you in future encounters with women.

good luck bro
 
Dude,

You know how after you drop a book in the bath, the pages are never quite right even after you dry it out on a radiator?

It's the same with relationships. If you broke up, no matter how much fun you had in the past, all the breakup BS will still be there.

Theres no shortage of women you can have an awesome time with. Go find another.

Stop wasting energy on things you fucked up in the past. Yes, it could have been different. But you fucked up, she fucked up, and it is how it is.

Think how much fun you're missing out on with strange and as yet unexplored females, whilst you're trying to work out how to get a response from this girl who has probably slept with 150 guys since you last saw her and barely remembers your name.
 
that half of you wanting to get with her and half of you not wanting to be with her is your subconscious bro and the feelings in your stomach are the result of you thinking about it the old times and whatever they represent to you

try it and instead of repressing it try releasing it and sending her love and approval instead you might be surprised if she calls you after you do this
 
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