Of course not. It sounds like you are primarily a cultural Christian, who pick and choose the things from your 'religion' as sort of guiding principles for your life. That is all fine and good and quite similar to how most people treat religion. I've known plenty of such christians and have absolutely no problem with them.
That doesn't mean Christianity isn't harmful as a political ideology.
You may or may not be aware that quite a lot of Christians would not consider you a Christian at all or at the very best a bad Christian.
This is probably a small issue for you since you live in the US were the benefits of a free society and the kind of Christian immigrants there (smart ones) keep radical elements in check.
However, if you had been put in a situation like most European countries, were Christian immigrants are generally the least educated and least smart from their own countries, then things might have been different.
There would be huge direct or indirect pressure from priests and pastors to become more religious, to 'choose sides' against the infidels. There would be sermons about how this and that was wrong in the west and how all Christians should fight against the evils of the big satan.
Now, would you in such a situation be able to keep your moderate stance? When all your friends and family were Christians and your church made it seem like being a moderate was being a bad Christian?
Would you take a clear stance against the attrocities committed by some 'Christians' when your pope/priest/pastor made you out to be a traitor if you did?
You were born a Christian and for you, I guess it gives you good things in your life, but my claim is that because of the extremely authoritative aspect of Christianity that encompasses everything in life, that it is very difficult to - if going by the word of the Bible - to be a moderate Christian, if put to the test.
Moderate Christians and radical Christians read the same texts and the radicals win that battle because of their greater knowledge, so moderate Christians either can't or don't dare argue that how radical Christians present Christianity is not the proper Christianity.
Because of this, the majority of 'cultural Christianity' become enablers for the radical Christianity and therefore, Christianity is defined by silent consent from moderates, by the radicals.
Unfortunately, as Christianty literally believe the Bible to be the word of god, there is no opportunity for a reformation as happened in ??????. Moderates will always be argued down by radicals who know more of the writings.
Still makes a lot of sense. #religiousmadlibswithrusvik