Ya know.... That's why they make birth control. Multiple kinds, even. In fact, there are even a handful of them that can be used in conjunction with one another.
You know, even as a woman, I'm fucking tired of this double standard bullshit! Men fuc* up and don't use a condom, and they're required to pay child support for the next 18+ years. Women fuck up and don't protect themselves, and they can just kill it to make it go away??? Fuc* that noise. Everyone's all for equality, until it doesn't benefit them. What would you recommend, then... that we let men get a court order for an abortion if they don't want the kid? Oh shit, there goes your rights again. Either get rid of abortion for fuc*ing convenience, or make it a law that the fathers can escape child support if the mother chooses to carry the child against his wishes.
And for the record, so no one can say I don't know what it's like, I was a single mom for 6 years before I met my now-husband. I never even filed for child support, and never will. Y'all want women's choice... I made the choice to keep my son even though the father didn't want him. Therefore, I'll SUPPORT my own choice.
You rock!