Stress

Sorry to hear about your stress CSNReyes. When I'm feeling stressed or depressed music is always my cure. Music has a lot of power. I will lock myself in my room away from the wife and blast my music and hit the weights hard or I will play my piano for a couple hours.
 


Awesome! So are you feeling better now?

Yeah, for sure.


Have 2 great friends that know exactly how everything goes for me.

I was just having a bad day, and really a bad month in all. Things going to get really good soon, just need to work harder and for better reasons.
 
Wow. Thanks guys - for actually being supportive of someone for once.

csn, I've helped to support my family since I was a teenager. I feel your pain. But guess what...It's years later and they still have money problems. You CAN'T fix someone. They have to want to do it themselves. Point them towards Dave Ramsey or something, but don't hold your breath.

The good news is that the experience of what you're going/gone through will ensure that you NEVER have those problems yourself. You'll overcompensate and end up quite succesful.

Life is a series of ups and downs (especially internet marketing life). I had some seriously major setbacks last year that were really disheartening. I stuck with it and now I'm back on the gravy train. Don't give up. Just grit your teeth, grab your balls, and work harder. It HAS to pay off eventually and that's a fucking fact.

Feel free to PM me if you want some encouragement, ideas, or just a kick in the ass. You're too young to be having these problems, dude.
 
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Yo thanks ChrisS.

Those were my thoughts once I hit post, I was so fucking stressed out I pressed post. Then "oh fuck, I posted on WF".


Really grateful for the help people have laid out, Everything was just building in and couldn't deal with it.I'll you hit up soon for sure, really cool to know someone has dealt with what I dealt with. I'll never give up, even under the hardest circumstances.
 
Just don't give up dude keep on grinding. It sounds cheesy, but if you are down in a shitty place right now then the only place you can go is up.

Another thing, like ChrisS said, its really hard to realize certain things while the shit is actually hitting the fan, but you sound like a smart kid and I guarrentee that one day you'll be able to look back at all of the bs and see how much it helped shape you.

P.S. You've probably lived more in the past year, even though you are only 16, then most grown adults have in their entire life. Just keep grinding and dont ever fucking give up. Good luck.
 
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Just don't give up dude keep on grinding. It sounds cheesy, but if you are down in a shitty place right now then the only place you can go is up.

Another thing, like ChrisS said, its really hard to realize certain things while the shit is actually hitting the fan, but you sound like a smart kid and I guarrentee that one day you'll be able to look back at all of the bs and see how much it helped shape you.

P.S. You've probably lived more in the past year, even though you are only 16, then most grown adults have in their entire life. Just keep grinding and dont ever fucking give up. Good luck.

Yeah, I keep telling myself that I can only go up but to be honest there is so much worse that can happen. People that have no opportunities, people that don't "see" the big picture, etc.I'm happy that I can see & do for what I dream of.
so I will make every advantage I have to get back up and be successful.

I really will be someone completely different at 25, there is so few people that are under 21 that really can get where I'm coming from and what I know can only make me stronger.
 
Wow. Thanks guys - for actually being supportive of someone for once.

csn, I've helped to support my family since I was a teenager. I feel your pain.

The good news is that the experience of what you're going/gone through will ensure that you NEVER have those problems yourself. You'll overcompensate and end up quite succesful.

Life is a series of ups and downs (especially internet marketing life). I had some seriously major setbacks last year that were really disheartening. I stuck with it and now I'm back on the gravy train.

Feel free to PM me if you want some encouragement, ideas, or just a kick in the ass. You're too young to be having these problems, dude.

You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to ChrisS again.
 
How do you all do this?

I have recently lost my place on an apprenticeship and I'm currently looking for a job. I was supporting my household with about 60% of my wages and since I lost my job my Dad has come back to work (Not because of me losing my job) And whenever I ask him for money he is hesitant when I gave so much these past few years (I started paying money to the house at 17 and I'm 19 now)

I'm kind of in the same position

I have some debts
No money coming in
Caffeine/food addiction

But the real problem is how to get out of the situation when I have no money or help from others to get???
 
The best advice I have is to work as hard as you can, do whatever it takes.

Once your in the opposite, you'll know who you're real friends are. The tough thing is it's your family so nothing you can really do. I just recommend to hustle the hell out of whatever you're promoting, because we all have hit rock bottom, but you gotta climb out.

Stress sucks bro but it's either you deal with it or let it consume you.
 
Thanks man

I guess I have let it consume me these past few years. I might as well focus on this IM and get a new job/apprenticeship. After that I can think of getting my own place and enjoying myself more.
 
I'm making enough to get by right now, don't need a job to pay the bills but can't do much more then that. My family doesn't know how to manage money and I still have to live with them because I'm under 18. Whenever I try to change shit, it becomes a huge commotion and everyone's fighting.

Thanks for the advice. Maybe my life is less complicated then I think it is, but things are so "set". Wish I had someone to really talk to lol.

Dude, I'm way older than you and talking to the family still draws up a shit storm. All I've tried to do is be generous, but they view it as my "arrogance" (wtf?). Anyways it hurts at first to have your family take advantage of you and then treat you like shit, but eventually you have to stop giving a fuck.

Lay down the law. Send out a message that nobody can fuck with you. Cheers.
 
Happy Bday to csn!

(Eat some fuckin cake and try not to be stressed haha)
 
Thanks Chris

you're probably going to laugh lol,

I hate sweet shit, like candy, cake, twinkies, etc lol

But yeah shit has been getting a lot better