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WF pimps get in here... I want to keep her, hit me with your wisdom.
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I was right, lol. I knew what mindset you were in when you wrote this thread, which I still have doubts as to its legitimacy. If you're not lying, that sucks but seriously, read Enigmabomb's advice again and don't care about this shit, just go with the flow and have fun.
If she didn't put any effort to get you to like her, it will be effortless for her to leave you. How do you get her to put the effort in? Never let her know how much you care.
QFT
When things click, they click. The harder you try to put two people together, the worse the fit will be. When you can just hang out in silence together for hours (with your clothes on) doing your own things around the house feeling comfortable in the presence of the other person, you're on the right track.
Nicky, I married a man who gamed for up to twenty-four hours straight at a time. It never bothered me because I had other things to do and was happy with my own hobbies. He did his thing and I did mine - just being near each other was nice. Plus I was known back then to spend a few hours gaming as well.
There are some compromises in relationships, but I've found among my friends and my own marriage that the most successful relationships are more "come as you are" sort of things - not molded around expectations of one party or another. You should never compromise who you are for a relationship - someone who "gets" you wouldn't expect you to change who you are, although it might be reasonable to turn off the X-box on special occasions.
I'm so with you. Real romance is something that is related to who you really are - not a stereotype. For the most part, if you've seen it in a movie, it's a joke. Limos, roses and shopping sprees are staged. If you really want to show a girl how you feel try a compilation CD aka High Fidelity. Or buy her something she wants but never seems to buy for herself. It takes time, it takes attention, and most importantly it means you know that girl on a deeper level than just someone to stick a pinky in - rose petals or not.
LOL - But don't go if you're going to bitch and whine the whole time. It's so damn annoying. Spending money doesn't make up for shopping with a whiny man.
Seriously, people? This is like hearing 10th graders talk about girls.
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I actually have the privilege and honor of hearing 10th graders talk about girls (and boys) all day every day. /sarcasm. And it is amazing similar to this although there is more discussion of busted parties, MIPs and cheating. and to thier credit, I haven't heard any of them tell each other to slap a dick in her face, but that might be because the boys are trying so hard to get the girls.
Sorry it didn't work out, but it sounds like it was for the best. The next time you have one you really like, take her camping. If she's real, she can take it for a few days cooking on campfires and hiking around. If she's not that natural, get a rustic cabin in the woods and just be together without distractions.
Get out of bed for a few hours each day - preferably more - and see how well the two of you mesh without any of the shit that clutters up real life. If you start to get bored or realize that she's not as great as you thought, you can still have fun and leave it at that. If you love her more after the solo time, you might really be on to something.
first no pictures and now no details?
BOO THIS MAN!
BOOOOOOO....
but let me guess you got too clingy and whipped, you took her shopping and spoiled her for a month or two and she ditched your ass before you could get to emotional when she left you that you would jump off a bridge when you found her banging 3 other dudes?
am i right or what?
either way you just lost your chance with the girl of your dreams. Your not a pimp and you don't have a good enough personality to keep a girl longer than a month. Your so bad she doesn't care if your rich she can't take you any longer. Now shes with some other guy with a bigger dick than you who is cooler and a lot more fun. probably even a black guy too.
lol jk just giving you a hard time. Now wheres the pics...
Nah, I didnt spoil her at all, defo didnt get to clingy, but yeah she thought I was her personal ATM machine, I said g'bye.
lol.
I'm too cheap.
This.
THIS.
My husband has given me many gifts through the years. Ranging from practical to ridiculously extravagant. To this day, really the only one I remember is one he gave me (for no particular reason) when we first fell in love. It was a mixed CD. There were the kind of songs that you've heard before but not that much and they were either, good, deep, emotional, sexual, or all of the above. I LOVED it. I still have it and put it on from time to time and whenever I hear one of those songs on the radio, I get all dreamy with the warm and fuzzies.
Definitely a win for any man looking to impress their lady.
If I ever need to win an debate entitled "94% Of Affiliate Marketers Have Never Had A Long-Term Girlfriend", this will be the thread I use to silence any opposition.
Man be yourself, you want to show her things she never seen before. You sound like amusement park. Romance is overrated bull shit if you look up the word it means an exaggeration of the truth. Just the fact that you want to show her shit she never experienced is quite enough. Keep the balance, some chicks don't know what they want so don't go spoiling shit.
I'll attest to that. I've never had a long term gf. I survived exactly a year once, but other than that never made it more than 1-3 months with a girl.